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Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships

Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Men’s Sex and Relationships

著者: George Lizos
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Can't Host is a gay and queer men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! www.georgelizos.com

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George Lizos
人間関係 心理学 心理学・心の健康 社会科学 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • Ep.76: Sexual Fluidity Beyond Labels and Binaries with Mark Cusack
    2025/12/19

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    In this episode, we explore what sexual fluidity really means and why so many people feel unseen by rigid labels and binary ways of thinking. Mark Cusack joins me to unpack how fluidity shows up in attraction, identity, and lived experience, and to challenge common misconceptions about what it means to be fluid. We talk about why pressure to “pick a label” can create guilt, shame, or confusion, and how fluidity can coexist with identities such as bisexuality, multisexuality, asexuality, and gender fluidity.


    We also dive into the real-life realities of being fluid, including dating and relationships, coming out when your identity feels shifting or hard to define, and navigating anxiety or isolation when others struggle to understand or trust fluidity. Drawing from research and personal stories, this conversation offers reassurance, language, and mindset shifts for anyone whose sexuality does not stay fixed over time — and for allies who want to understand better.


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    ABOUT MARK CUSACK


    Mark Cusack is an author, lecturer and coach who specialises in supporting people with complex, fluid or undefined orientation and gender. Mark runs the online platform @notdefining where he raises awareness of the less talked about parts of the sexuality and gender spectrums.


    Website: https://www.notdefining.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notdefining/

    Book: "Fluid": https://uk.jkp.com/products/fluid



    CONNECT WITH ME

    Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    MY BOOKS

    Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

    Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

    Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

    Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

    Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg

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    47 分
  • Ep.75 The Ultimate BDSM Topping Guide with Janet W Hardy
    2025/12/05

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    In this insightful episode, Janet W Hardy joins me to explore the world of BDSM topping through the wisdom of The New Topping Book. We dive into what it really means to take the lead in a scene — from the mindset shifts that help new tops build confidence, to the balance of power and care that makes BDSM both safe and deeply pleasurable. Janet shares practical tools for communicating clearly without killing the mood, navigating nerves or insecurities, and embracing topping as a creative, collaborative craft rather than a performance you need to “get right.”


    We also explore the emotional and psychological layers of topping—how to stay present, attuned, and aware of the deeper dynamics in more intense play. Janet highlights the ethical responsibilities of a top, the importance of aftercare for both partners, and how community and mentorship support growth. Whether you're new or experienced, this conversation offers a grounded guide to leading scenes with confidence, clarity, and heart.


    Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecrets


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    ABOUT JANET W HARDY


    Janet W. Hardy is an author, educator, and speaker known for her groundbreaking work on relationships, sexuality, and kink. She has written or co-written more than a dozen influential books, including The Ethical Slut, which has sold over 300,000 copies. Janet has taught internationally on topics from ethical multipartner relationships to erotic spanking and has appeared in documentaries, television, podcasts, and radio. She founded and served as editor-in-chief of Greenery Press for twenty-five years, publishing books on alternative sexuality. Today, she continues writing, teaching, and creating work that supports sex-positive education while living in Eugene, Oregon.


    Website: https://janetwhardyauthor.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janetwhardy/

    Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/jhardyauthor/



    CONNECT WITH ME

    Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    MY BOOKS

    Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

    Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

    Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

    Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

    Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg

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    26 分
  • Ep.74 The Ultimate BDSM Bottoming Guide with Janet W Hardy
    2025/11/21

    Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠


    In this eye-opening episode, Janet W Hardy joins me to explore what it truly means to be a bottom in BDSM. We dive into the roles, motivations, and emotional nuances behind bottoming, along with the communication skills that make scenes safer and more satisfying. Janet shares practical guidance on how bottoms can express what they want, set clear limits, choose supportive safewords, and prepare for scenes with confidence and clarity.


    We also get into the embodied experience of bottoming, from navigating sensation and pain to understanding endorphins and staying grounded in bottom space. Janet offers insight into emotional vulnerability, aftercare, finding compatible partners or communities, and exploring more intense forms of play while staying supported and self-aware. This conversation is designed to empower anyone who wants to approach bottoming with skill, intention, and pleasure.


    Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecrets


    Join the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membership


    ABOUT JANET W HARDY


    Janet W. Hardy is an author, educator, and speaker known for her groundbreaking work on relationships, sexuality, and kink. She has written or co-written more than a dozen influential books, including The Ethical Slut, which has sold over 300,000 copies. Janet has taught internationally on topics from ethical multipartner relationships to erotic spanking and has appeared in documentaries, television, podcasts, and radio. She founded and served as editor-in-chief of Greenery Press for twenty-five years, publishing books on alternative sexuality. Today, she continues writing, teaching, and creating work that supports sex-positive education while living in Eugene, Oregon.


    Website: https://janetwhardyauthor.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janetwhardy/

    Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/jhardyauthor/



    CONNECT WITH ME

    Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    MY BOOKS

    Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCj

    Lightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKf

    Protect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJd

    Secrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvr

    Ancient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    43 分
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