We know our coconut guy by name. That means we’re basically locals now.

Six weeks deep into our housesitting life, we've settled in so thoroughly we no longer feel like tourists—partially because Phnom Penh feels relatively tourist-free anyway. This week, we dive into the true rhythm of the Cambodian capital and share the unexpected keys that unlocked the city for us.

We explore the fascinating contrasts everywhere: the massive, relentless construction reshaping the skyline, and the hilariously interesting inspiration they seem to be taking from certain famous European landmarks.

More importantly, we reveal the absolute best way to experience the city: being fully embraced by the local community. The incredible lesbian community has accepted us as one of their own, opening doors and proving they are the secret gatekeepers to Phnom Penh.

Join us as we recap our adventures, from a chaotic murder mystery cruise along the Mekong to our first exhilarating experience with the local martial art, Kun Khmer. We are officially seeing everything this capital city has to offer.

We threw away the map and handed the compass to Divina. Hit subscribe to follow the deep rewards of letting destiny drop you into a local life you could never have planned. Follow the full journey on our Instagram @ExceptionalDecisions