Parenting a neurodivergent or high-needs child can leave moms carrying more than anyone else realizes. The exhaustion, advocacy, grief, worry, and constant need to stay one step ahead can become so normal that we forget how heavy it really is.

After the very first Calm Connection Moms Retreat in Loveland, Colorado, I came home reflecting on what happened when a group of moms raising children with big emotions, neurodivergence, and mental health challenges finally had space to rest, connect, laugh, cry, and be understood.

In this episode of Calm Connection Parenting, we talk about five important things moms of neurodivergent kids may need more of, not because all the hard things suddenly disappear, but because sometimes the support we receive changes how we walk back into them.

You’ll hear about:

• Why constantly staying strong may be costing you more than you realize
• What can happen when moms finally have space to acknowledge what they’ve been carrying
• Why feeling understood can be more powerful than receiving another piece of advice
• How one small shift in support, rest, or connection can help you return to the same life differently

Nothing at home may change overnight. But with the right support, something in you can.

Listen in and then choose one thing you need more of this week—and one small next step toward finding it.

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• Visit CalmConnectionParenting.org to become an insider and receive weekly news. Find information about the coaching program (and scholarships), free parenting resources, and how we can connect.

*Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes and is not medical advice. Please consult a qualified professional for individual support.

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In this episode of Calm Connection Parenting, we discuss how to move out of panic and into curiosity when the first few weeks of school start getting harder. You’ll learn how to gather better information, listen without rushing to fix, and decide when it may be time to involve the school.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why the first days of school can sometimes look easier than the weeks that follow
• How to spot patterns that may point to stress, overwhelm, or a more specific struggle
• Simple ways to help your child open up without feeling judged, pressured, or immediately “fixed”
• How to know when it may be time to move from listening and observing into calm, thoughtful advocacy

If your child is dealing with back-to-school anxiety, emotional dysregulation, ADHD, autism, sensory overwhelm, homework battles, or after-school meltdowns, this episode will help you approach the struggle with more clarity, connection, and confidence.

Instead of assuming, “Here we go again,” you may discover that your child is simply giving you new information—and that information can help you decide what support comes next.

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• Take Your Next Step: Emotional Forecast Quiz
• Visit CalmConnectionParenting.org to become an insider and receive weekly news. Find information about the coaching program (and scholarships), free parenting resources, and how we can connect.

*Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes and is not medical advice. Please consult a qualified professional for individual support.

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Back-to-school can be exciting, but for kids with ADHD, autism, anxiety, sensory needs, executive functioning challenges, or emotional dysregulation, the transition can also bring overwhelm, meltdowns, exhaustion, and big emotions.

In this episode we talk about practical ways to help neurodivergent kids adjust to school routines, reduce after-school dysregulation, prepare for common trouble spots, and build stronger communication with teachers from the start.

You’ll learn how to:

• Recognize when back-to-school behavior may actually be overwhelm or nervous system overload.
• Reduce unnecessary demands while your child adjusts to a new schedule and environment.
• Support executive functioning with simple routines, visual tools, and predictable systems.
• Protect after-school decompression time to help prevent meltdowns and emotional explosions.
• Identify common trouble spots before they become daily battles.
• Communicate proactively with your child’s teacher in a positive, collaborative way.
• Watch patterns, gather information, and respond with curiosity instead of panic.

Jami also shares a printable teacher information form you can complete and give to your child’s teacher to highlight strengths, sensory needs, triggers, helpful supports, and important information that can help the school better understand your child.

A difficult first week does not mean you are headed for a difficult year. With a little preparation, realistic expectations, and the right supports, you can help your child begin the school year with more calm, connection, and confidence.

Listen now and start setting your child, and yourself, up for a stronger back-to-school transition.

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• Visit CalmConnectionParenting.org to become an insider and receive weekly news. Find information about the coaching program (and scholarships), free parenting resources, and how we can connect.

*Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes and is not medical advice. Please consult a qualified professional for individual support.

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Maternal mental health, medication, postpartum depression, and the stigma surrounding treatment can already feel overwhelming. When a tragic mental-health story dominates the headlines, it can stir up even more fear for moms and parents trying to make thoughtful decisions for themselves or their children.

In this episode of Calm Connection Parenting, Jami shares encouragement from her own experience with postpartum depression, depression during motherhood, and advocating for a child struggling with mental health. This is not medical advice, but a calm reminder that fear, stigma, and other people’s opinions should not make these deeply personal treatment decisions for you.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why mental-health headlines can be especially triggering for moms and parents already wrestling with depression, anxiety, or medication decisions

• How stigma and unsolicited opinions can quietly influence the way we think about mental-health treatment for ourselves and our children

• What healthy advocacy can look like when you have concerns, questions, or feel like you are not being fully heard

• How to filter fear from helpful information so you can move forward with greater confidence, discernment, and support

If current events have left you questioning mental-health treatment, feeling judged about medication, or remembering your own difficult season, this episode offers a calmer place to sort through the noise.

Seeking help takes courage. Asking questions does not make you anti-treatment. And advocating for yourself or your child can be an important part of getting good care.

Send a text and share your thoughts!

• Take Your Next Step: Emotional Forecast Quiz
• Visit CalmConnectionParenting.org to become an insider and receive weekly news. Find information about the coaching program (and scholarships), free parenting resources, and how we can connect.

*Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes and is not medical advice. Please consult a qualified professional for individual support.

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🎉 We made it to Episode 100! Calm Connection Parenting has now reached listeners in 120 countries and territories, with parents looking for help with ADHD, DMDD, emotional dysregulation, meltdowns, sensory needs, anxiety, and the everyday realities of raising a uniquely wired child.

But this episode isn’t really about the numbers. It’s about YOU.

In this special 100th episode, Jami looks back at the most-listened-to episodes, shares meaningful listener reviews, and reflects on the message that has been at the heart of Calm Connection Parenting from the very beginning: behavior makes a lot more sense when we get curious about what’s underneath it.

We’re celebrating the parents listening in school pickup lines, late at night after hard days, from small towns, big cities, and places all over the world.

Inside this episode, we’re celebrating:

• 100 episodes of practical parenting support and encouragement
• Listeners in 120 countries and approximately 2,300 cities
• The topics parents keep coming back for most
• Powerful words from listeners who say the podcast has helped them feel seen, supported, and less alone
• The simple parenting shift that continues to shape nearly every conversation on the show
• And what’s coming next for Calm Connection Parenting

Most of all, this is a giant THANK YOU to every parent who has listened, shared an episode, sent a message, left a review, or simply pressed play on a hard day.

Here’s to 100 episodes, thousands of parents, and a whole lot more calm and connection ahead. ❤️

If Calm Connection Parenting has helped you, celebrate with us by leaving a five-star rating or written review on Apple Podcasts and sharing what the podcast has helped you understand differently about your child.

And remember—you’ve got this. And on the days you don’t, we’re in it together.

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• Take Your Next Step: Emotional Forecast Quiz
• Visit CalmConnectionParenting.org to become an insider and receive weekly news. Find information about the coaching program (and scholarships), free parenting resources, and how we can connect.

*Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes and is not medical advice. Please consult a qualified professional for individual support.

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How Churches Can Support Neurodivergent Children: ADHD, DMDD, Autism, and Sensory Needs

Many families raising children with ADHD, DMDD, autism, anxiety, sensory needs, emotional dysregulation, or other invisible disabilities want church to be a place of hope, belonging, and support. But sometimes these families are quietly struggling, slipping away, or unsure how to ask for help.

In this final episode of our three-part series, When Church Feels Hard for Neurodivergent Children and Families, we’re talking about how churches can better support neurodivergent children and their families with more awareness, compassion, flexibility, and practical care.

This episode is for parents who want a helpful resource to share with their church, and for pastors, children’s ministry leaders, youth leaders, volunteers, and church members who want to understand how to make church feel safer and more welcoming for families with unique needs.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why churches cannot rely only on parents to advocate before offering support
• How simple questions on children’s ministry or youth forms can open the door to better care
• Why different support does not mean unfair treatment, especially for kids with sensory needs, anxiety, ADHD, autism, or emotional dysregulation
• How churches can take one practical step toward helping families feel seen, supported, and able to belong

You’ll also hear practical examples for children’s ministry, youth group, church events, sensory needs, volunteer responses, and ways churches can begin supporting families without needing a perfect program or huge budget.

For free resources, coaching information, and support for parenting kids with big emotions, challenging behaviors, and unique needs, visit calmconnectionparenting.org.

Send a text and share your thoughts!

• Take Your Next Step: Emotional Forecast Quiz
• Visit CalmConnectionParenting.org to become an insider and receive weekly news. Find information about the coaching program (and scholarships), free parenting resources, and how we can connect.

*Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes and is not medical advice. Please consult a qualified professional for individual support.

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When church has hurt your family, it can bring up grief, sadness, and even shame. For parents of neurodivergent children or kids with ADHD, autism, anxiety, DMDD, sensory needs, emotional dysregulation, or challenging behaviors, Sunday morning may feel especially difficult when your child is misunderstood, labeled, excluded, or unsupported.

In this second episode of our series, When Church Feels Hard for Neurodivergent Children and Families, we are talking directly to parents who have experienced painful church situations or church hurt. If your child has said they hate church, if you feel judged by others, or if you are wondering whether to keep trying, ask for help, take a break, or find a different church, this episode will help you sort through the hurt with compassion and clarity.

You’ll learn the GRACE framework: Grieve what has been hard, Recognize the real barrier, Ask for specific support, Consider the response, and Evaluate the next right step.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why church hurt can feel especially painful when you hoped church would be a place of grace, support, and belonging
• How to separate your child’s struggle with church from their relationship with God or future faith
• How to use the GRACE framework to name the hurt, identify your child’s needs, and ask for specific support
• When to keep advocating, when to take a break, and when it may be wise to consider a church that can better support your family

This episode also includes practical scripts you can use when talking with a pastor, children’s ministry leader, Sunday school teacher, youth leader, or trusted church volunteer.

For free resources, coaching information, and support for parenting kids with big emotions, challenging behaviors, and unique needs, visit calmconnectionparenting.org.

Send a text and share your thoughts!

• Take Your Next Step: Emotional Forecast Quiz
• Visit CalmConnectionParenting.org to become an insider and receive weekly news. Find information about the coaching program (and scholarships), free parenting resources, and how we can connect.

*Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes and is not medical advice. Please consult a qualified professional for individual support.

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In this first episode of a three-part series, we begin an honest conversation about ADHD, DMDD, autism, anxiety, sensory needs, church hurt, painful church experiences, and the hope of creating more understanding inside faith communities. Church is supposed to be a place of hope, grace, encouragement, and belonging. But for many families parenting neurodivergent or emotionally dysregulated children, Sunday morning can feel like one of the hardest parts of the week.

Many families come to church looking for support, but instead feel watched, judged, misunderstood, or alone when their child struggles with loud worship music, uncomfortable clothes, sitting still, children’s ministry, transitions, or social expectations. This episode is for parents who need to feel seen and for churches that want to listen, learn, and make room.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why Sunday morning can be so hard for neurodivergent children and families, even when faith and church matter deeply
• How painful church experiences can feel especially tender when families expected grace, support, and belonging
• Why behavior is communication, even at church, and what children may be telling us through meltdowns, refusal, anxiety, sensory overwhelm, or dysregulation
• How parents and churches can begin moving from judgment to curiosity, from hurt to conversation, and from isolation to hope

You’ll also hear a powerful post from Maggie Diemer, one of our summit panel speakers and a mom attending the Calm in the Chaos Mom’s Retreat, about what happens when a child does not fit the “church box” and why maybe the box needs to change.

For free resources, coaching information, and support for parenting kids with big emotions, challenging behaviors, and unique needs, visit calmconnectionparenting.org.

I recorded this episode twice, and both times, the thunder interrupted! LOL! I guess we will just think that was the heavens moving on our behalf! LOL!

Send a text and share your thoughts!

• Take Your Next Step: Emotional Forecast Quiz
• Visit CalmConnectionParenting.org to become an insider and receive weekly news. Find information about the coaching program (and scholarships), free parenting resources, and how we can connect.

*Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes and is not medical advice. Please consult a qualified professional for individual support.

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