In this episode I talk to my friend Nina of over 15 years about love.

True love that is.

How we have "wasted" years with the wrong people but also our learnings. How Nina married her now husband within a reasonable and respectful timeline.

How being a girlfriend/boyfriend after 30 is kind of embarrassing. becoming a husband/wife is an elevated title. A sign of respect and love.

How many women "babytrap" men and how many men just stay with the women who "woun´t go anywhere". The type of women that are "easy to control" but in reality are highly manipulative.

Also no risk, no reward. Nothing is certain in life. Your "safe" choice can end up costing you much more than the so called risky choice...

How sad it is to see people settle just to adhere some society/ family rules.

How when true love knocks on your door. YOU WILL KNOW IT INSTANTLY.

It does not take a man or a woman years and years to "KNOW IF YOU ARE THE ONE".

We think it´s rather embarrassing to allow yourself to never be truly adored by the love of your life.

Yes, the market is rough out there but it´s important to live with intention. To do the right thing no matter how lonely you feel.

It´s also very weird to bring children to this world where you are not sure if you are with the love of your life.

How is getting married more of a serious commitment than children? Children bind you for life.

Anyhow as Nina says: Don´ let your boyfriend/girlfriend stop you from finding your husband/wife.

And I, well I just hope that love finds me for once.

As someone who makes life happen a lot, this is where I draw my line. I don´t like forcing love.

I would like it to happen organically <3

Cheers to that manifestation babes!

English episode with Lejna <3

In this episode Lejna and I talk about being Albanian and growing up in Denmark.

How to combine those two worlds and feeling foreign in both.

Also for Lejna feeling like a minority in Denmark but also in North Macedonia. A perspective I had not thought about as a Kosovo Albanian.

As humans we yearn to belong and sometimes the road to find your place can be very bumpy but nonetheless important.

Join us for an honest discussion about identity and upbringing.

It´ a personal story but with a universal feel.

Episode 21 in Danish with Mette

I talk to my previous boss Mette who hired me on the spot back in 2011 when I got back home in Copenhagen, Denmark from Los Angeles, USA.

We talk about instant chemistry and women supporting women in business.

English episode 20

I talk with my friends Nina and Mara about genuine friendships, love, life and my old school bird clock🤣💜

A Dutch Norwegian, an Albanian Dane and a Croatian Brit go in to a bar...

Being authentic is so rare but besides love, they say authenticity is the highest level of frequency. Now, you tell us✨️

Episode 19 in English

I talk with my friend Amire about being Albanian Danish

Check it out :)

Episoda 18 n´Shqip

Bisedë me drejtusin e Konsullatës të Kosovës në Danimark, Valdrin Grainca

Na folem për vizionin e Kosoves për Diasporen dhe iniciativat që jan nis në Danimark.

Episode 18 in Albanian

A conversation with the Head of the Kosovo Consulate in Denmark, Valdrin Grainca

We discussed Kosovo's vision for the Albanian diaspora and the initiatives that have been launched in Denmark.

Episode in English with Manisha

Description:

In this episode, I sit down with Manisha, a former colleague from the pharmaceutical industry, for an honest conversation about women in the workplace, empowerment, and the importance of supporting one another.

We explore why women sometimes view each other as competition rather than allies, while men often seem more willing to champion and promote one another. Together, we discuss how we can move from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset, one where there is room for all of us to succeed.

We also talk about the value of traditionally "female" strengths that are often overlooked in corporate environments. While technical expertise, analytical thinking, and hard skills are essential, qualities such as empathy, collaboration, relationship-building, and creating inclusive cultures are equally important. These skills help shape strong teams, healthy workplaces, and better outcomes for everyone.

This episode is a candid reflection on leadership, workplace culture, and why lifting each other up is far more powerful than tearing each other down.

English episode 16

Description:

YOU don´t get to tell me that my LIVED EXPERIENCE is not real.

On today’s episode, I talk about what it feels like to be called a “victim” simply for sharing your story.

I talk about having my pain invalidated by people who have never lived through the things I have. People whose baseline in life started at zero while mine started at minus one hundred. People who were handed safety, stability, opportunities, and dignity, yet still feel entitled to tell marginalized people what is real, what matters, and how we should feel.

I talk about growing up having to earn everything from an early age, constantly fighting to create a better and more dignified life for myself without ever allowing myself to sink into self-pity. Survival became motivation. Pain became fuel.

But there is a particular arrogance in privileged people dismissing struggles they have never had to endure themselves.

This episode is a reflection, and a conversation about class, privilege, survival, identity, and the audacity of people who think their limited experience is the universal truth.

Listen now if you’ve ever experienced having your experiences or feeling be invalidated by people who cannot possible know what it feels to be in your shoes...