A fiercely funny, painfully accurate, spiritually precise dismantling of why brilliant women keep losing millions to beautiful, emotionally unfinished men.

This episode closes a 40-year pattern, exposes the four unfinished masculine archetypes, breaks the mother-wound loop, clears prosperity blocks, and teaches you how to stop dating men who drain your destiny.

If you’ve ever been derailed by a pretty boy with a perfect cock and zero coherence — this one is for you.

In this cinematic, comedic, and deeply human episode, Leigh Jane Woodgate brings closure to a forty-year relational pattern and delivers the truth every powerful woman needs to hear:

The greatest threat to a woman’s prosperity is not the economy.

It’s the emotionally unfinished man she keeps trying to love.

Through the story of “The Italian,” Leigh exposes:

• why women with destiny get derailed by beautiful, underdeveloped men

• the real architecture of the mother wound

• how patterns disguise themselves as chemistry

• the four Unfinished Masculine Archetypes

• beauty as spiritual responsibility

• why blocking from power ≠ blocking from cowardice

• what true completion actually feels like in the body

• how sacred celibacy clears prosperity pathways

• why your next million depends on coherence, not compromise

This is a masterclass in feminine leadership, relational intelligence, somatic truth, and vocational prosperity.

If you are done losing money, years, sanity, or self-respect to adolescent men wearing adult bodies…

Press play.

00:00 — Welcome to the Completion Portal

Why this episode marks the end of a 40-year pattern and the beginning of a new feminine era.

02:45 — Beauty as the Bait, Incoherence as the Bill

Why women lose millions over emotionally unfinished men.

05:12 — The Italian: A Case Study

Aesthetic outrageousness, masterpiece cock, Windows 95 operating system.

09:01 — 2019: The Cosmic Plot Twist

The Serbian, the speakeasy, the Negroni, the publican’s daughter destiny loop.

12:44 — When Clarity Meets Emotional Adolescence

His messages decoded through developmental psychology.

16:20 — The Two Types of Blocking

Blocking from power vs. blocking from cowardice.

20:03 — The Invisibility Pattern

Why women are erased when they stand in truth.

24:18 — Beauty as Responsibility (Not a Free Pass)

Grow your personality to match your face.

27:40 — The Archetype Exorcism

Musicians, surfers, creatives, DJ-poets, builders, professors… all of them cleared.

33:10 — The Balkan Loop

Why destiny is petty and patterns end where they began.

36:02 — Every Woman Has That Man

The one who reveals the architecture of her mother wound.

39:50 — The Four Unfinished Masculine Archetypes

Avoidant, Victim Boy, Performer, Untouched Shadow.

45:18 — The Identity Shift

It is not your job to educate the unwilling.

48:55 — The Warning Label Era

Who Leigh’s field is for—and who it is absolutely not for.

52:36 — What Completion Actually Feels Like

Neutrality, melancholy, headache, and the nervous system void.

59:11 — Your Next Million Requires Coherence

How prosperity accelerates once the pattern dies.

1:01:35 — Closing Transmission

Stop dating the pattern.

Start leading your destiny.

References:

Learn more about LIBERATION here

Welcome to a transmission that redefines prosperity at its’ core.

The Money Module – Your Prosperity Imprint

In this bonus module from INITIATION, a 4 week immersion inside The House of Sense, to 3X your revenue in the Feminine Leadership Flow State™, Leigh Jane Woodgate—Business, Leadership, and Wealth Advisor—guides you into a radically embodied approach to wealth creation through the Gene Keys’ Vocation sphere. This isn’t just about making money. It’s about aligning your business with the cycles of nature, healing ancestral wounds, and unlocking your deepest genius.

If you’ve ever felt the tension between your calling and capitalism, or the ache of trying to thrive in systems that weren’t built for you—this episode is your permission slip to do things differently.

Tune in to discover:

How your core wound holds the seed of your greatest prosperity

What the Vocation sphere in Gene Keys reveals about your sales style, natural genius, and impact

Leigh’s personal journey from burnout to embodied money attraction.

How feminine leadership flow and aligned structure scale your business without sacrificing your health or joy

Whether you’re inside INITIATION or simply listening to this as a sacred sneak peek—you’ll walk away with deep clarity, powerful insight, and practical steps to embody your unique wealth path.

Timeline & Key Moments:

0:01–1:50 – Welcome to INITIATION & Leigh’s journey from burnout to building her business in flow

1:51–3:44 – Feminine Leadership Flow State & working with natural cycles, not patriarchal clocks

3:45–5:14 – Human Design insights & intro to the Prosperity Imprint via Gene Keys

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• 5:15–6:47 – Understanding the three layers of core wounds (personal, collective, planetary)

6:48–8:20 – Vocation Key in Gene Keys: your deepest wound, genius, and prosperity path

8:21–11:06 – Leigh’s example: Gene Key 57, Line 4—intuition, rejection, sales through connection

11:07–14:27 – Turning pain into purpose: Leigh’s lived experience of rejection & impact

14:28–17:31 – Sales as sacred service & the magnetic power of presence

17:32–21:30 – Personal and ancestral healing through the Vocation Key + book inspiration

21:31–26:16 – Healing colonisation, leadership as love, and redefining poverty

26:17–28:59 – Leigh’s $1M journey through embodied feminine business

29:00–30:45 – What INITIATION covers: 4-week breakdown of business expansion

30:46–34:58 – Spontaneous structure, AI synergy, client brilliance, and feminine flow

34:59–37:44 – The Lost Art of Being Human and how this work contributes to peace

37:45–end – Final blessings, next steps, and a call to embodied prosperity

Work with Leigh or Dive Deeper:

Explore INITIATION: the 4-week business growth immersion to 3X your revenue in feminine flow here

Join THE HOUSE OF SENSE: The Feminine Leadership Membership for Embodied Expansion here

Visit: www.leighjanewoodgate.com

Get the book: The Lost Art of Being Human is now available on Amazon here

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If you've been over-mothered, your greatest challenge in this life is boundaries. This of course impacts all of your relationships, how you do business, and how you show up in life on a daily basis. For you to experience peace and prosperity in your life, your relationships are at the core - business is about relationships. If your relating fields are not clean and clear, your ability to give and receive openly will be impacted.

If you've been under-mothered, you need to learn to nurture and nourish yourself at the highest level possible. If you've been under-mothered, naturally you'll be running on a pattern and a program of scarcity. So when something good shows up in your field, because you're running on “not-enoughness” or “not good enoughness”, you will think that what or who has just crossed your path is the best that is ever going to land in front of you. You’lll try to hold onto it / them in all the possible ways, because on a cellular level you’re programmed to “it doesn't get better than this.”

Your bank account will know all about it, and so will your mental health and nervous system.

The truth is, the better it gets, the better it gets.

The trick is in unapologetically being true to yourself.

Happy 2025! This episode was recorded in January this year…a month of reflection of the year before. May it bring the clarity that you are seeking to access a deeper level of internal peace so that you create all that you desire in the coming months, without getting caught up in unnecessary drama.

P.S: Apologies for the crickets in the background (you could say they were backing me up in agreeance with what I was sharing with you - well, I like to think so:) - the opposite of the meaning of “getting crickets”

Enjoy!

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