She went in for a cosmetic procedure—and walked out with a diagnosis that changed her life.

In this powerful and unfiltered episode, Sada and Hilary sit down with Monika to share her unexpected breast cancer journey—from the shocking moment she found out, to navigating treatment, family, and everything in between.

What started as a simple cosmetic procedure quickly became something much bigger when Monica’s surgeon discovered a suspicious piece of tissue that ultimately led to a diagnosis of stage one triple positive breast cancer.

From that moment on, everything changed.

In this episode, we talk about:

• How Monika’s cancer was found completely by accident
• What “triple positive breast cancer” actually means
• The emotional impact of diagnosis on both her and her family
• What chemotherapy and treatment really look like
• The moment she had to tell her children
• The role of friendship, support, and showing up
• Why early detection and advocating for your health matters more than ever

We also dive into something we don’t talk about enough—what to do (and what NOT to do) when someone you love is going through something hard.

The biggest takeaway:
Don’t wait. Get your screenings. Advocate for your health. And when life hits hard, lean on your people—and don’t forget to find moments of humor along the way.

This is a conversation about resilience, perspective, and what truly matters.

🔗 Connect With Us

🎙 Podcast: @wtf.lifeismessy
💛 Hilary: @its.hilarybrophy
💛 Sada: @simplysadajames

If you’re moving through grief, a midlife shift, healing, or simply feeling stuck in the in-between, Sada offers RISE — an intimate 8-week mentorship experience designed to help women feel supported, understood, connected, and less alone. It’s a space for anyone craving real community, honest conversation, clarity, and a softer landing place through life’s harder seasons.

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⚠️ Disclaimer

This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The views shared are based on personal experience and do not constitute medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual situation. Guest opinions are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of the hosts or this podcast. Any products mentioned are not sponsored unless explicitly stated.