Ever wanted to borrow someone's confidence? Well now you can. In this episode, I break down the mindset shift that helped me stop overthinking, start taking action, and actually feel more confident in situations I used to avoid altogether. If you've ever looked at someone and wondered how they walk into a room like they belong there, or how they talk to people so easily, or how they seem unfazed by the things that make you second guess yourself, this episode is for you.

I talk about what "borrowing confidence" really means and why it is the most practical version of fake it till you make it. You can literally try on someone else's confidence the same way you'd try on a jacket. You study what they do, you put the mindset on for a few minutes, and you see how it fits. And if it works, it becomes yours. If it doesn't, you return it and try something else. It is that simple.

In this episode, I share exactly how I used this idea in real life. Learning how to speak up in meetings by watching someone with decades more experience. Borrowing someone's social confidence to walk up to a girl at a bar. Using Alix Earle's consistency framework to build my own posting schedule. And most recently, channeling Emma Chamberlain on a red carpet while interviewing the Succession cast for the first time. All of it came from studying people who already had what I wanted and using their momentum to build my own.

This episode is packed with real examples, practical stories, and a clear framework you can use today. Borrow someone's confidence. Borrow their mindset. Borrow their discipline. Borrow whatever trait you need until it becomes yours. That is how you build the version of yourself you've been trying to become.

If you feel stuck, unsure of yourself, dealing with self-doubt or imposter syndrome, or tired of wondering why other people seem so confident, start here. Confidence is not something you wait for. It is something you borrow until it becomes part of you.

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