當孩子進入青春期，「性」不再只是生理話題，而是關於愛、尊重與關係的學習。
在這一集，我和 Dr. James Lee 一起談談家長最想問、卻最怕問的問題：

💬 如何自然地與青少年談性？
❤️ 讓孩子知道：愛的表達有很多種，性行為只是其中一種。
🌱 親密關係中還有「高質時間（quality time）」與情感連結的意義。

我們也會探討家長常見的兩個尷尬時刻：
😳 如果孩子撞破父母的親密行為，該怎麼解釋？
💭 如果發現孩子有自瀆行為，或被撞見時，家長該如何反應？

👉 Dr. Lee 提供了實際可行的應對策略：

• 以尊重與平靜的態度回應，而不是羞辱或驚慌
• 用年齡適合的語言說明親密與愛的界線
• 把這些時刻轉化為親子間的信任與教育機會

這一集不是要教家長「控制」孩子，而是學會引導：
讓孩子理解愛的多樣性、性是選擇、而尊重是關係中最重要的基礎。

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As children grow into their teenage years, conversations about sex become conversations about love, respect, and relationships.
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. James Lee to explore how parents can approach these sensitive topics with calmness, warmth, and honesty.

💬 How to talk to teens about sex — naturally and without awkwardness
❤️ Helping teens understand that love can be expressed in many ways — sex is just one of them
🌱 The importance of emotional connection and quality time in intimate relationships

We also discuss two of the most common “uh-oh” parenting moments:
😳 What to do if your child accidentally walks in on you during an intimate moment
💭 How to respond if you discover or walk in on your child masturbating

Dr. Lee shares practical and compassionate advice:

• Respond with respect and calm, not shame or panic
• Use age-appropriate language to explain privacy, intimacy, and love
• Turn these moments into teachable opportunities to build trust and openness

This isn’t about controlling your teen — it’s about guiding them to understand that love is diverse, sex is a choice, and respect is the foundation of every healthy relationship.

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性教育，不應該等到青春期才開始。
真正的性教育，其實是——從小教孩子學會保護自己、尊重自己、尊重他人。

在這一集，我和 Dr. James Lee (https://www.megainspire.com/) 一起拆解：
家長可以如何在日常生活中，自然地開始「親子性教育」對話，而不尷尬、不說教。

我們會談到：

👶 幼兒期可以教什麼？

• 正確身體部位名稱
• 身體界線與「私密部位」概念
• 學會說「不」與尋求幫助

🛡️ 如何建立孩子的自我保護意識？

• 安全觸碰 vs 不安全觸碰
• 分辨「秘密」與「驚喜」
• 誰可以幫忙、如何求助

📱 面對 TikTok 世界：怎樣教孩子不被「假價值」影響？

• 誇張外貌與身材比較文化
• 「性感化」與過早成熟的內容曝光
• 跟風 challenge 與陌生人私訊風險
• 如何培養孩子的媒體素養（media literacy）與批判思考
• 與其禁止，不如教孩子「看得懂、想得清」

💬 家長可以怎樣自然開口？

• 把性教育融入生活情境與新聞事件
• 用開放態度取代「羞恥感」
• 建立一個「什麼都可以問」的安全家庭氛圍

這一集不是教你「一次講清楚性知識」，
而是陪你一步一步建立——
🌱 安全感
🌱 界線感
🌱 尊重與自愛

因為真正保護孩子的，從來不是害怕，
而是知識 + 信任 + 親子連結。

Sex education shouldn’t start in the teenage years.
It starts much earlier — by teaching children how to protect their bodies, respect themselves, and respect others.

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. James Lee (https://www.megainspire.com/) to explore how parents can begin these conversations naturally — without awkwardness or fear.

We discuss:

👶 What to teach in early childhood

• Correct body part names
• Understanding private parts and boundaries
• Learning to say “no” and ask for help

🛡️ Building body safety skills

• Safe vs unsafe touch
• Secrets vs surprises
• Who are trusted adults

📱 Parenting in the TikTok generation

• Unrealistic body image comparisons
• Early exposure to sexualised content
• Online trends, challenges, and stranger risks
• Teaching critical thinking instead of simply banning screens

💬 How parents can start the conversation

• Using daily life moments and news stories
• Replacing shame with openness
• Creating a home where kids feel safe to ask anything

This episode isn’t about “one big talk.”
It’s about building — slowly and consistently —
🌱 safety
🌱 boundaries
🌱 respect

Because what truly protects children isn’t fear.
It’s knowledge, trust, and connection.

📩 Got a question? Submit it here — I may answer it on the podcast.

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如果你對自閉症、語言發展、語言治療、雙語教育或親子溝通有任何疑問，歡迎填寫我們的發問表格！我都會挑選合適的問題，為大家在Podcast解答，幫助更多家長和孩子！

📩 提交你的問題：點擊這裡填寫發問表格

💡 你的問題，可能正是許多家長都想知道的！期待在下一集Podcast與你分享更多實用資訊！

🎧 訂閱我們的Podcast，不要錯過每一集的精彩內容！

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Whether it’s about autism, language delays, bilingual parenting, or communication tips — I’d love to hear from you! Submit your question using the link below. I’ll choose a few to answer in future episodes to help more families like yours.

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Bilingual Speech Spot 嘉賓｜Guest
Linda（言語治療師 SLP ＋ 行為分析師 BCBA；SPABA 傳播獎得主）
Find Linda on Instagram & Threads: @speechabaworks

節目重點

Stimming 要不要阻止？從 ND-Affirming ABA 角度看學習與行為

嘉賓：Linda（SLP＋BCBA；SPABA 傳播獎得主）
IG/Threads：@speechabaworks

本集深入解構「神經多樣化友善」的 ABA：如何在尊重差異下，同時提升孩子的溝通、安全與參與。我們討論 stimming 的功能、何時需要介入、AAC 示範（示範→等待→撤助）、80/20 教學比例，以及如何利用興趣建立技能。亦談到功能等值替代、清晰界線，以及 SLP × BCBA 跨專業合作如何為自閉症孩子提供更有效、以強項為本的支援。

Should We Stop Stimming? An ND-Affirming ABA Lens on Learning & Behaviour

Featuring Linda (SLP + BCBA; SPABA Award recipient)
IG/Threads: @speechabaworks

We unpack what neurodiversity-affirming ABA truly means: respecting differences while teaching for communication, safety and participation. Topics include the function of stimming, when to intervene, AAC modelling (demo → wait → fade), the 80/20 teaching ratio, and how to use a child’s interests to build meaningful skills. We also discuss function-matched replacements, clear boundaries, and why SLP × BCBA × OT collaboration creates the most effective, strength-based support for autistic children.

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📢 Got a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast?

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📩 Ask your question here: [Click to submit your question]

💡 Your question might be just what other parents are wondering too!

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