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The word "narcissist" gets tossed around constantly these days, but what does it really mean? When does ordinary selfishness cross the line into something more sinister and destructive?

In this revealing conversation, Melissa draws from her specialized training under Dr. Ramani Durvasula to explain the clinical reality of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Far from simply being self-centered, true narcissists display at least five of nine specific traits including entitlement, exploitation of others, and a profound lack of empathy that affects every relationship in their lives.

What makes narcissistic abuse so insidious is how invisible it often remains. Behind their charming public personas, narcissists systematically strip away their victims' identity and self-worth, creating a reality where the victim feels crazy for questioning what's happening. "These people don't want others to see who they truly are," Melissa explains, detailing how victims develop "betrayal blindness" – an inability to recognize abuse from someone who's supposed to love them.

Perhaps most heartbreaking is the generational impact. Children raised by narcissists either become extreme people-pleasers or adopt the same destructive patterns, perpetuating cycles of trauma. Through powerful examples and expert insights, we explore why narcissists rarely seek help, why traditional therapy often fails them, and how survivors can begin reclaiming their identity and reality.

Whether you suspect someone in your life might be narcissistic or you're simply curious about this frequently misunderstood condition, this episode offers clarity, validation, and hope. Evil flourishes in darkness, but together we can bring these patterns into the light. Join us every Tuesday at 6am for new episodes, or subscribe through our website for early access and exclusive content.

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