In this episode, Wendy is joined by Dr. Andrea Vassilev, clinician, academic, award-winning advocate and author of Beyond the Bipolar Label, who has lived with bipolar disorder for nearly 30 years. What makes this conversation different is that Dr. Vassilev brings both clinical expertise and genuinely lived experience to the table, and she is refreshingly honest about both.

Bipolar is one of the most misunderstood and misdiagnosed mental health conditions there is. It is frequently missed because people present with depression, not mania. It is cyclical, which means people can appear fine between episodes, and then be blindsided when the next one arrives. And it carries a level of social stigma that can quietly make the condition itself worse, because when the shame of having bipolar becomes layered on top of the condition, the research shows it leads to lower self-esteem, reduced likelihood of seeking help and, in bipolar specifically, increased thoughts of suicide and worse depressive outcomes.

That layering of shame is what Dr. Vassilev's book addresses directly. The conversation covers what self-stigma actually is, how it forms through internalising stereotypes and through globalising difficult experiences into fixed beliefs about who you are, and what it takes to start reframing the narrative. Dr. Vassilev also talks about identity, why a diagnosis can feel all-consuming, and why that is understandable but not the full picture of who someone is.

There is also an honest thread running through the whole episode about what living with bipolar actually looks like over a lifetime, including the 10 years Dr. Vassilev lost being seriously unwell, the ECT treatments, the careers that ended, and the milestones that were delayed. She is clear that she does not want her current success to inadvertently discourage anyone, and that honesty is one of the most valuable things in this conversation.

Practical ground covered includes who to tell about a diagnosis and how to think through that decision, how bipolar affects relationships and employment, the two biggest myths about the condition, and what Dr. Vassilev would say to someone who has just been diagnosed and is sitting in her virtual office for the first time.

Dr. Vassilev's book Beyond the Bipolar Label is available on Amazon and wherever books are sold:

👉 https://www.amazon.co.uk/Beyond-Bipolar-Label-Self-Stigma-Authentically-ebook/dp/B0FLPVJHKW/

A free disclosure decision tool and additional resources are available via the publisher's website at:

👉 https://www.newharbinger.com

To find out more about Dr. Vassilev's work, visit:

👉 https://www.andreavassilev.com

Or follow her on Instagram: @best.life.bipolar

To learn more about Wendy's work, explore resources, or stay up to date with future episodes, visit:

👉 https://wendycastelino.com/

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