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As we head into Christmas week and inch closer to the New Year, it’s easy to get swept up in the noise, the schedules, and the pressure to “get it all together.” But real transformation doesn’t come from resolutions or fresh start magic, it comes from the conversations you have with yourself before the year ends.

In this episode, Jamie guides you through four deeply honest and transformative conversations that will help you close out the year with clarity and step into 2026 with intention. These aren’t fluffy journal prompts or vision board questions, these are the inner confrontations that shift your direction, elevate your identity, and build your future.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, distracted, behind, or unsure of your next move, this episode will ground you, challenge you, and refocus you.

What You’ll Learn

✔️ The truth-telling question that reveals what’s been holding you back
✔️ How to practice accountability without shame
✔️ Why identity determines outcomes (not goals)
✔️ How to define a clear vision for your next season
✔️ The difference between honesty and clarity — and why you need both
✔️ A simple reflection framework to reset before the new year

4 Key Conversations Covered

1. The Truth Conversation
   What are you pretending not to know? And what changes when you finally name it?
2. The Accountability Conversation
   How did you contribute to your current results? And what power do you reclaim when you own your role?
3. The Identity Conversation
   Who are you becoming? And what habits, environments, and standards must change to support her?
4. The Vision Conversation
   What needs to happen next — practically, specifically, intentionally — to carry you into 2026 aligned and focused?

Standout Quotes

✨ “Most people drag their unresolved truths into a new year. This is your chance to confront them.”
✨ “You don’t rise to the level of your goals, you rise to the level of your identity.”
✨ “Your next season is determined by your next decision, not your next dream.”
✨ “Clarity is a gift you give your future self.”

Chapters

00:00 – Intro: The quiet before the new year
02:12 – Why you need these 4 conversations
04:11 – The Truth-Telling Conversation
08:02 – The Accountability Conversation
11:14 – The Identity Conversation
14:50 – The Vision Conversation
18:40 – Challenge + next steps
20:10 – Outro + call to action

Listener Challenge

Before the year ends, spend 15 minutes answering the four big questions:

1. What am I pretending not to know?
2. How did I contribute to where I am?
3. Who am I becoming?
4. What needs to happen next?

Tag Jamie on Instagram and share your biggest insight.

Connect with Jamie

Instagram: @jamiekienholz
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YouTube: Jamie’s Journey

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