This episode cuts straight into the real work. The kind you only learn when life forces you to rebuild yourself from the inside out.I talk about growing up as the fixer, the overgiver, the emotional anchor. The kid who learned to earn love instead of receive it. And how that early blueprint followed me into adulthood until I finally ended the cycle myself.This conversation is about the shift that happens when you stop asking other people to give you what they were never capable of providing. You start becoming it for yourself. That’s the moment your healing stops being theory and starts being lived truth.If you're in a season of shedding old patterns, raising your standards, and refusing to settle for emotional breadcrumbs, this one’s going to hit home.• How childhood conditioning wires us to overgive and overlook red flags• What changes when you stop outsourcing your emotional safety• Why becoming the love you never got transforms every relationship in your lifeListen in and let this be the reminder your past never gave you and your future self is begging you to claim.Stay connected: • TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeinfocuswithsuttida • Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/suttidalifeinfocus • Website → https://suttida.com • Download the Healing & Growth Workbook → https://stan.store/lifeinfocuswithsuttida