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  • We Called Off the Wedding (Temporarily). This Is Why

    We Called Off the Wedding (Temporarily). This Is Why
    2025/06/22

    In the kickoff episode of Season 2 of Bad Marriage 4 Life, hosts Jenny and Vic delve into the tumultuous year that delayed their return to the podcast. Newly married, they reflect on their engagement, wedding planning, and the considerable personal hardships they faced, including their daughter's battle with addiction and a close friend's cancer diagnosis. The couple also recounts the chaos and lessons learned from their engagement party, setting the stage for a candid and heartfelt season ahead.

    00:00 Welcome to Season Two!

    00:53 The Engagement Journey

    01:20 Wedding Planning Woes

    03:24 Family Struggles and Support

    13:17 The Engagement Party

    18:19 The Engagement Party Dilemma

    18:41 The Cost of Attendance

    19:06 Gift Expectations and Etiquette

    21:33 The Speech Controversy

    24:51 Post-Party Reflections

    33:19 Lessons Learned and Moving Forward

    34:20 What's Next

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    28 分
  • Who Started It? The Never-Ending Mystery of Couple Fights (We Both Lose!)

    Who Started It? The Never-Ending Mystery of Couple Fights (We Both Lose!)
    2024/04/04
    Jenny and Vic, who have been together for over 20 years and share five children, openly discuss a recent loud argument they had, reflecting on the recurring nature of their fights despite the longevity of their relationship. They consider their progress in handling disputes, including the use of a therapist-recommended 'password' to take breaks during heated moments, which they admit to forgetting in the heat of the moment. The discussion delves into the impact of their arguments on their children, the importance of setting a good example, and the emotional aftermath of such disputes. Vic and Jenny also touch on insecurities and fears of separation, while humorously navigating through their differences and shared moments. The conversations highlight the complexities of long-term relationships, the challenge of communication, and the ongoing effort to improve and understand each other better, all within the tapestry of family life and love. 00:00 The Aftermath of a Heated Argument 00:15 Reflecting on Relationship Dynamics and Arguments 01:40 The Impact of Arguments on Children 02:35 The Struggle with Communication and Resolution 08:02 Revisiting the Argument: Who Started It? 09:08 Post-Argument Actions and Reassurances 09:52 Dealing with Trust and Infidelity Concerns 12:10 Maturity and Moving Forward 12:53 Opening Up About Personal Struggles 13:02 The Aftermath of a Heated Argument 13:51 Finding Humor in Neighborly Observations 14:59 The Reality of Couple Fights and Communication 15:54 A Public Argument and Its Consequences 20:24 Reflecting on Respect and Communication in Relationships 23:04 The Importance of Shielding Children from Arguments 24:25 Understanding Emotional Needs and Communication in Relationships----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life
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    26 分
  • Depression, Debt & The Weight of Expectations

    Depression, Debt & The Weight of Expectations
    2024/03/28
    Jenny and Vic discuss their spontaneous intimate moments, Jenny's depression despite life's successes, and the challenges of balancing career pressures with family life. They delve into the disparities in handling emotional support within their relationship, with Vic providing unwavering support despite Jenny's admission of likely failing to reciprocate in difficult times. They also touch upon the struggle with financial pressures, particularly student loans, and the existential crisis of aging without feeling accomplished. The conversation shifts towards the importance of finding happiness within, despite external stresses, with Vic highlighting his gratitude for life given his rough upbringing. They conclude with plans for overcoming Jenny's depression, including walks and a surprise trip Vic has been wanting, underlining the continuous effort to find joy and satisfaction in their long-standing relationship. 00:00 Welcome to Bad Marriage for Life 00:14 A Spontaneous Encounter 01:02 Navigating Depression and Support in a Relationship 04:04 The Struggle with Financial Dreams and Realities 06:23 Reflecting on Success, Family, and the Desire for Wealth 08:55 Facing the Reality of Aging and Seeking Happiness 16:40 Finding Joy in the Small Things and Planning for the Future 20:08 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life
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    22 分
  • Couples Therapy: Navigating Financial Differences & Compromises in Marriage

    Couples Therapy: Navigating Financial Differences & Compromises in Marriage
    2024/03/07
    Jenny and Vic discuss the challenges and insights from their ongoing couples therapy sessions. Vic surprises Jenny in therapy by expressing concern over Jenny's handling of a situation with one of their children, leading to a broader discussion on accommodation and financial planning within their relationship. Jenny questions how much she should compromise for the relationship's success, especially regarding financial decisions and their impact on personal happiness. They delve into their differing attitudes towards money, with Vic prioritizing financial stability over luxurious spending due to his financially strained upbringing. The episode highlights their journey to understand each other's perspectives better, the importance of budgeting for a healthy relationship, and the challenges of balancing personal desires with joint financial responsibilities. The conversation also ventures into topics like marriage, compromising for happiness, and the peculiarities of planning vacations and dealing with the psychological aspects of spending. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Start 00:17 Discussing Therapy and Relationship Dynamics 01:38 Financial Responsibilities and Relationship Compromises 03:44 Planning a Family Trip and Financial Disagreements 06:17 Exploring Personal Spending Habits and Financial Management 08:39 Contemplating Relationship Compromises and Financial Independence 11:46 Reflecting on Personal Desires and Relationship Expectations 14:38 Discussing Marriage and Financial Expectations 16:07 Gratitude for What We Have 16:33 Growing Up Without a Male Role Model 17:22 Building a Family and a Comfortable Life 18:03 Counting Blessings and Future Plans 18:35 Love for Work and Compromises 19:13 Living Life to the Fullest 20:22 Financial Stress and Desire for More Experiences 23:52 Polyamory and Compromises in Marriage 27:39 Bad Marriage for Life Podcast and Giveaway----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life
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    29 分
  • Fear of Abandonment

    Fear of Abandonment
    2024/02/29
    In the 31st episode of 'Bad Marriage 4 Life', the co-hosts, Vic and Jenny discuss the theme of the fear of abandonment and its impact on their relationship. Jenny opens up about her personal fear of being alone and how it has played into her decision-making process in relationships and influenced how she deals with friendships. Vic shares his differing perspective on being alone. They reflect on their past experiences and why they decided to stay together after turbulent times, attributing their ultimate decision, in part, to their fear of being alone. They also touch on their upcoming marriage and the societal misconceptions and expectations that come with it. 00:00 Introduction and Role Reversal 00:26 Discussing Fear of Abandonment 01:57 Reflections on Past Relationships 03:16 Confronting Past Mistakes and Fears 07:48 Understanding Each Other's Perspectives 10:21 The Impact of Past Decisions on Present Relationships 12:23 Learning from Therapy and Personal Growth 14:47 Regrets and Reflections on Parenthood 15:42 Looking Forward: Engagement and Future Plans 21:36 Dealing with Assumptions and Judgements 21:59 The Annoyance of Unwanted Commentary 22:22 The Misconceptions of Late Marriage 23:22 The Journey of a Long-Term Relationship 24:03 The Misunderstandings of a Large Family 25:21 The Misinterpretation of Honesty in Marriage 26:11 The Importance of Timing in Relationships 26:52 The Etiquette of Responding to Engagement News 30:18 The Unwanted Advances in a Couples Resort 31:54 Closing Remarks and Upcoming Contest Announcement----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life
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    33 分
  • Unveiling the Dark Side of Alcohol in Relationships

    Unveiling the Dark Side of Alcohol in Relationships
    2024/02/22
    Jenny and Vic delve into the detrimental effects of alcohol on relationships, drawing from their own experiences. They open up about recent arguments exacerbated by heavy drinking and discuss Jenny's symbolic act of removing her wedding ring during rough patches. Both hosts reflect on how excessive alcohol consumption has led to verbal abuse, health issues, and strained social interactions. Vic shares personal anecdotes highlighting the negative consequences of drinking, including violence and weight gain. Despite the challenges, Jenny commits to six days of sobriety in an effort to improve their relationship. The episode also touches on the difficulties of serious conversations amidst alcohol use, the truth serum effect, and the unpleasant experiences of drunk sex. Reflecting on their past drinking habits, the hosts acknowledge the need for change and express hope for a healthier future together. 00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter 00:10 The Issue of Yelling and Arguments 00:36 The Symbolism of the Missing Ring 00:51 The Night Out and Drinking Habits 02:38 The Aftermath and Verbal Abuse 02:58 Family History of Alcoholism 03:17 The Consequences of Drinking 04:06 The Drinking Process and Its Effects 04:35 The Double Standards in Jokes 09:47 The Issue of Addiction 10:38 The Impact of Drinking on Relationship 12:48 The Struggle with Serious Conversations 14:44 Committing to Sobriety 15:11 Reflecting on Drinking Habits 16:24 The Struggles of Drinking and Calculating Tips 16:48 Pledging to Stay Sober for Six Days 16:58 The Consequences of Drinking: Violence and Weight Gain 17:14 Recalling Past Drinking Experiences 17:44 Body Positivity and Self-Love 18:11 The Worries of Blackouts 18:34 The Aftermath of a Night Out 18:53 The Truth Serum Effect of Alcohol 22:19 The Ugly Side of Drunk Sex 24:12 A Birthday Night to Forget 28:15 Closing Remarks and Future Plans----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life
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    29 分
  • Parenting and Therapy

    Parenting and Therapy
    2024/02/08
    In episode 29 of 'Bad Marriage 4 Life,' hosts Jenny and Vic offer engaging insights into their family life and discuss their ongoing journey through couples therapy. They introduce each of their children: youngest son Max who is navigating teenage life and gaming addictions, Sasha who is pursuing a modeling career in New York City, Summer - an environmental science graduate considering law school, Olivia who has overcome addiction and is making strides in her recovery, and Tom with whom Vic is currently estranged but hopes to reconnect. Jenny and Vic express their hope that through therapy, they can become better parents with improved communication skills. The episode also hints at the launch of the 'Bad Marriage for Life Mix Tape Volume two' on Valentine's Day. 00:01 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:07 Discussing Our Children 01:46 Concerns About Screen Addiction 04:24 Updates on Our Children's Lives 09:36 The Impact of Therapy on Our Lives 13:53 Promoting Our YouTube Channel and Mixtape----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life
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    15 分
  • Our Biggest Relationship Struggles

    Our Biggest Relationship Struggles
    2024/02/01
    Jenny and Vic go deep into their marital matters. They start discussing their recent tensions, focusing on Vic's delay in addressing household chores, specifically the situation of their cable bill. Their conversation covers the complexities and frustrations of changing cable packages, as well as Vic's approach to problem-solving, which aggravates Jenny. This leads to a general discussion on how men and women handle household issues differently. They also focus on their sex lives, the challenges they face in maintaining intimacy, and the changes their sex life has gone through over time. Rather than just highlighting their differences, they also toss around potential solutions and ways to improve their relationship. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Start 00:42 The Cable Bill Dilemma 01:59 The Unfulfilled Promises 02:07 The Art of Imitation 02:50 The Cable App Conundrum 05:13 The Importance of Downtime 05:56 The Meeting Culture 06:21 The Decline of Intimacy 08:17 The Joy of Dry Humping 08:33 The Dream of a Homeless Shelter 10:41 The Need for Better Communication 13:30 Conclusion and Episode End----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life
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    14 分