In this conversation, we explore the journey of shifting focus from working directly with children to engaging with parents for greater impact. The discussion delves into the importance of resilience, the challenges of parallel parenting, and strategies for fostering a calm and confident family environment. The episode emphasizes hope and the potential for positive change in family dynamics, even in the face of co-parenting difficulties.

Learn more about Todd Sarner at: https://www.toddsarnermft.com/ and https://transformativeparenting.com/

Also check out Todd’s LinkedIn profile and YouTube channel.

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Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/EtwchoOM2Uw

Books mentioned in this episode:
Spiritual Divorce by Debbie Ford: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0061227129/
Parenting from the Inside Out by Daniel Siegel: https://www.amazon.com/dp/039916510X

Keywords

parenting, resilience, attachment, family dynamics, co-parenting, parallel parenting, emotional intelligence, child development, conflict resolution, family therapy

Takeaways

• Working with parents can create more significant change.
• Resilience is built on repair, consistency, and secure attachment.
• Transitions in parenting often lead to conflict.
• It's essential to lead with calm and confidence.
• Shifting family dynamics is possible, even with challenges.
• AI technology can help filter negativity in communication.
• Parallel parenting requires understanding and strategy.
• Emotional intelligence is crucial in parenting.
• Hope is a powerful motivator in family dynamics.
• Creating supportive environments can lead to better outcomes.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background of Todd Sarner

02:27 The Shift from Child Therapy to Parent Support

04:11 Personal Experiences Shaping Professional Insights

04:49 Understanding Attachment and Its Importance

06:11 Navigating Parental Alienation and Its Effects

07:48 The Reality of Divorce and Its Impact on Children

11:46 Parallel Parenting vs. Collaborative Parenting

14:09 Understanding Attachment in Blended Families

16:26 Navigating Loyalty Conflicts in Co-Parenting

21:23 Strategies for Emotional Connection During Transitions

25:27 Transformative Actions for Co-Parents

28:18 Lightning Round: Quick Insights for Co-Parents

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