Anxiety and insomnia after a hospital day isn’t a personal failure — it’s often a nervous system response to sustained stress in hard rooms.

In this caregiver-first conversation, Michelle sits down with psychiatric nurse practitioner Tauna Young to talk about why your body stays “on” after the crisis, what “regulated enough” can feel like, and tiny tools you can try in 1–3 minutes.

Gentle note: Today’s episode includes anxiety, insomnia, and caregiver burnout. Please listen in a way that feels supportive for you. You’re welcome to pause and come back at any time.

Part 1: Triggering Questions from Episode Content

Have you ever held it together through a hospital day — the waiting, the decisions, the advocating — and then gotten home and your body won’t come down?

Have you been exhausted but unable to sleep, with a loud mind and a tight chest, wondering why you can’t just switch off?

Have you felt guilt for resting, or like you’re “failing” because your nervous system won’t settle?

If this is you, you’re not broken. Your nervous system has been working overtime.

Part 2: Highlights of Episode

This episode reframes anxiety and insomnia as nervous system experiences, not character flaws — and focuses on small, realistic steps for caregivers with no extra capacity.

Inside this episode:

Why the crash often comes after hard rooms (not during them)

What “stuck on” can feel like in the body (tired, but can’t exhale)

A simple definition of nervous system regulation: when mind and body get the same message

How hypervigilance and alarm fatigue affect sleep and anxiety

Why acceptance can be a form of regulation (not giving up — letting the body trust you)

Tiny resets you can use in the car, hallway, or at bedtime:
one slow exhale + unclench jaw
naming multiple feelings (without justifying them)
nature contact (feet on ground, even briefly)
changing your physical state (warm water, cold air, movement)

CES (Cranial Electrotherapy Stimulation) explained in plain language, and how to learn more

Mini reset / practical next step (1–3 minutes, trauma-aware)

If you’ve got one minute between appointments, try this: one slow exhale, soften your jaw, and then name 5 feelings (no “because”).

For example: “overwhelmed, tired, hungry, tense, hopeful.”

You’re not fixing anything — you’re helping your body feel seen, so it can settle one notch.

At bedtime, choose one small transition ritual (music, warm water on hands, feet on the ground, one page of journalling) so your nervous system isn’t expected to go from crisis straight to sleep.

Caregiver tools (links)

90 Second Reset Program: https://jandbinspired.com/90-second-reset-program

Gratitude Journal (free): https://jandbinspired.com/gratitude-journal-2026-j-and-b-inspired

Gentle Radiance Circle (community): https://web.facebook.com/groups/1533792571644996/

Guest links — Tauna Young

Website: https://neurovanacalm.com/

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Timestamps / Chapters (approx.)

00:00 — Gentle note + why you can’t switch off after hospital days

03:10 — Mind-body connection (why the body doesn’t “get the memo”)

07:40 — The crash after hard rooms: emotional exertion is physical too

09:45 — Exhausted but can’t sleep: what’s happening psychologically

15:20 — Anxiety as a rejected emotion + why suppression backfires

19:45 — What regulation can feel like (congruence, acceptance)

22:30 — Hypervigilance, alarm fatigue, and sleep

36:30 — One-minute car reset + naming feelings without judgement

40:20 — Bedtime transitions that help the scanning mind

48:05 — CES explained in plain language + where to learn more

53:45 — Lightning round: overload signs + 30-second resets

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Music by Hartzmann (via Uppbeat)

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