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Have you ever been loved by someone… and still felt like you didn’t deserve it?

Or found yourself questioning a relationship, not because the other person did something wrong — but because something inside you felt uncertain?

In this episode, I talk about a deeper layer of unworthiness — the kind that shows up in relationships.

Sometimes it looks like insecurity.
Sometimes it looks like overthinking.
And sometimes, it quietly shapes how we receive — or even push away — love.

I share personal experiences of how this feeling has appeared in my life, from moments of hesitation and self-doubt, to patterns I didn’t fully recognize until recently.

But more importantly, I talk about what I’m beginning to learn:

That love is not something we have to earn.
And our worth is not defined by whether someone chooses us or leaves us.

As I continue growing in my faith, I’m learning to see love — and myself — through a different lens. A lens where worth is not based on performance, comparison, or approval, but rooted in the love God has already given.

In this episode, we explore:

• How unworthiness shows up in relationships
• Why we sometimes question love even when it’s real
• The connection between insecurity and the need to prove ourselves
• What changes when we begin to understand our worth through God’s eyes

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I really worthy of love?”
this episode is for you.

You are not worthy because someone chooses you.
You are worthy because you were already loved first.

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