How well do you know your finger techniques?

In this second anniversary episode, I’m sharing another After Hours moment with you! This time, it’s with Steph Zapata, sexual health educator, anti-colonial organizer, and the visionary behind SLAM, a groundbreaking conference centering sex, liberation, and movement work. We kick things off with a game called Fingering It Out, where Steph schools us on fingering techniques, erogenous zones, and why lube is always the answer. Then we get real and go deeper into Steph's personal journey from years of shame and disconnection to reclaiming their body, their pleasure, and themselves.

We also talk about:

• how shame shows up in the bedroom and what to do instead of fighting it

• reclaiming your identity and body as home through sex education

• how to live from your heart instead of your anxiety-riddled mind

• using dirty talk to turn intrusive thoughts into real-time communication with your partner

• why imposter syndrome and fear do not have to hold you back from showing up

If you have ever felt disconnected from your body, stuck in your head during sex, or like pleasure is something you have to earn, this episode is your reminder that becoming whole is a process, shame is not yours to keep, and dirty talk might just be the hack that changes your sex life.

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