This episode is a solo one, and host Jenny Olson is saying out loud some of the things she thought for years that she believed were just her. If you are a special needs parent or caregiver who has ever felt alone, misunderstood, or like no one else gets it, this episode is for you. We talk about grieving the future you once pictured for your child, even while loving them exactly as they are. Jenny opens up about getting tired of hearing it will get easier, and what it is really like when there is no empty nest coming for families like ours. We also cover feeling resentment and guilt at the same time, watching friendships fade as life gets busier with caregiving, and lying awake at night wondering who will care for your child when you are gone. She shares thoughts on how the world seems built for families with young kids with special needs, but offers very little for adults with special needs, along with the complicated feelings that come from watching other people's kids hit typical milestones. Lastly, we talk about losing touch with your own hobbies and identity outside of being a caregiver, and why it is okay to still take up space as your own person. If you are a special needs parent or caregiver of an adult with disabilities looking for connection, community, and honest conversation about guardianship, caregiving, and adult disability life, she hope this episode reminds you that you are not alone. Join our Facebook group for parents and family caregivers of special needs adults (or late teens, age 16+) Follow the podcast on Instagram

On today's episode, host Jenny Olson is sharing the things she would never do as she planned for her special needs son's 18th birthday. If you have a special needs teenager who is 16, 17, or about to turn 18, this episode is packed with practical tips to help you avoid common mistakes. We talk about why you should never wait to look into guardianship, power of attorney, conservatorship, or supported decision making, and why it is best to start that process at least a year before your child turns 18. She also shares why you should never open a regular bank account in your special needs child's name with a lot of money in it, and why an ABLE account or special needs trust is a much safer option. We also cover why you should never forget to apply for Medicaid and SSI right after your child turns 18, since those benefits are the gateway to things like Medicaid waivers and paid caregiving. And finally, Jenny reminds you why you should never forget why you are doing all of this in the first place. If you are a special needs parent or caregiver trying to make sense of guardianship, Medicaid, Social Security, or SSI as your child approaches adulthood, this episode will help you feel more prepared and less alone.

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Today we're talking with Haley Bennett, a mom of 4 whose younger two kids, ages 18 and 17, have profound autism, apraxia, mitochondrial issues, and several other complex health conditions. Haley shares how she found the Speller program after hearing about the book Underestimated, and how spelling to communicate opened up a whole new world for her non speaking children. We talk about apraxia, presuming competence, and why a child who cannot reliably communicate may know so much more than anyone realizes.

Haley also opens up about medical advocacy, diagnostic overshadowing, and how getting the right doctor finally uncovered serious health issues that had been dismissed as just autism for years. We dig into MedMAPS, a directory of clinicians who specialize in caring for kids and adults with complex special needs, along with their conferences for both clinicians and parents.

Haley also shares practical advice on getting benefits and services when you move states, why you have to be the squeaky wheel, and why trusting your gut as a parent matters more than you think. If you are a special needs parent or caregiver looking for real resources on communication devices, medical advocacy, or navigating benefits, this conversation is meant for you. Links:

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For this episode, I'm sharing several things I have learned after being a special needs parent for 18 years to my son Ben, who has autism and an intellectual disability. If you are a parent of a child with special needs, or a caregiver of an adult with disabilities, this episode is full of honest reflections that I hope will encourage you. We talk about how high school graduation is not really a finish line, but the start of a whole new chapter. I also share why turning 18 does not mean your child suddenly needs less help or support, even though they are a legal adult. We talk about why it is so important to look into adult disability services and benefits like Medicaid, guardianship, ABLE accounts, and Social Security or SSI before and after your child turns 18. I also open up about learning to trust myself instead of constantly worrying, planning for my son's future care after I am gone, and why setting up things like a special needs trust and organizing important documents really matters. Lastly, I talk about why taking care of myself as a caregiver is just as important as taking care of my son. If you are a special needs parent or family caregiver looking for encouragement, real talk, and practical tips for navigating guardianship, Medicaid waivers, and adult disability care, this episode is for you.

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We’ll be walking you through how I became a paid caregiver for my own adult son who has autism and an intellectual disability. If you have ever wondered if you can get paid to take care of your adult child with special needs, this episode is for you. I share the exact steps I took here in Colorado to become a paid family caregiver through Medicaid waivers, but this information can help you no matter what state you live in since many states have similar programs. We cover what paid family caregiving actually is, how Medicaid and HCBS waivers work, and the difference between self directed care, also called CDASS, and agency directed care, also known as PASA. I also break down the different types of waivers, including the SLS waiver, the CFC waiver, and the Children's waiver, and explain why we chose the path we did for our son. You will hear about the process of interviewing caregiving agencies, what homemaker hours and personal care hours are, how much you can expect to get paid, and what training like CPR and mandated reporter classes are required. I also share info on which states have strong consumer directed models, which states allow parents of minors to be paid caregivers, and where you can start your own research no matter where you live. If you are a special needs parent or caregiver wondering about guardianship, Medicaid waivers, or how to get paid to care for your loved one, this episode is packed with real, honest information to help you get started. Follow us on Instagram for more info. on special needs benefits, services, and to find a like-minded community of other special needs adult caregivers!

Today's episode is a little different. It's just me, Jenny, going solo for a new series I'm calling a Walk and Talk. I recorded this while on my morning walk after my kids headed off to school and my son Ben went to his program. Think of it like a heart to heart, parent to parent, and caregiver to caregiver. If you are a special needs parent or a family caregiver of an adult with disabilities, you know how hard it is to get a real break or find respite care. In this episode I share three simple hopes for you, three types of breaks that can help you get through the hard days of caregiving. We talk about doing something small just for you, planning a do nothing day where you skip the chores and paperwork, and giving yourself grace and a break on the inside too. If you are feeling overwhelmed, lonely, or like you have to do it all yourself as a caregiver, this episode is for you. You are not alone in this caregiving journey, and I hope this conversation reminds you that you are doing better than you think.

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Today we're talking all about special needs financial planning with Tanner Withers, founder of Albility Planning. Tanner is a special needs financial planner who helps families across the country plan for their disabled loved ones, and he's also an adoptive dad to a daughter with a rare genetic syndrome. We talk about the two things every special needs family hears about, ABLE accounts and special needs trusts, and why you need to understand how they actually work before you use them. Tanner breaks down the Disabled Adult Child (DAC) benefit, the child in care spousal benefit, and the cliff at age 22 that can cost a family their Social Security benefits for good. We also dig into how ABLE accounts work, how much money you can put in them, the Medicaid clawback rule, and how a debit card option can help give your adult child more independence with money. If you're a caregiver of an adult with disabilities, or a special needs parent trying to figure out guardianship, Medicaid waivers, Social Security disability, or how to build a financial plan for your family's future, this episode is packed with helpful tips and real world advice. Tanner Withers Albility Planning: https://www.albilityplanning.com/ use PROMO code ALBILITY250 for 250 off the Foundational Roadmap His FB group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1EuY7egfBP/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/albilityplanning/

Today we're talking all about special needs parenting and caregiving with Jeff and Kim Kribs, the hosts of the Specialness Podcast. Jeff and Kim share their honest story of adopting their son Kason, who was later diagnosed with severe mental illness, autism, an intellectual disability, and a rare genetic disorder. We talk about what it's really like raising a special needs child alongside a neurotypical sibling, and how that affects the whole family. Jeff and Kim also open up about their long fight to get Social Security disability benefits, the confusing guardianship process, and the frustrating experiences they've had at adult doctor's offices once their son turned 18. If you're a caregiver of an adult with disabilities, or a special needs parent trying to figure out guardianship, Medicaid waivers, Social Security disability, or what happens when your child ages out of school services, this conversation is packed with real talk and hard won advice. Jeff and Kim also share what they wish more doctors, schools, and employers understood about caring for a special needs adult child. Kim and Jeff’s podcast: Specialness Podcast