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Addiction Makes Three

Addiction Makes Three

著者： Amanda Lockyer
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Addiction Makes Three The Podcast, with Amanda Lockyer is dedicated to shining a light and understanding the lesser talked about side of addiction. The real impact it has on the partners and families of those that struggle with addiction.


Are you struggling with a partners addiction and feel at a complete loss as to what to do?

You feel like you have no one to turn to and are worried you'll be judged or your partner will be judged. It can feel like no one understands what you are going through and no one could really imagine what this is really like.


We will cover what it is truly like to be on the other side of a loved one struggling with addiction or navigating recovery. We will also dive deep on tools, ideas and strategies that will really help you whether you are at the confusing beginning the messy middle or through the other side, including practical tips and ways that you can actually get back to living again, regardless of the path your partner chooses.


I will share my own lived experiences and expertise as an Addiction Relationship Coach and Wife of someone someone that struggled with addiction and we will have experts and guests that can share their expertise and experience in this space too so that you truly know you are not alone and know that there are things you can do to help you, your family and your partner - whether you choose to stay in the relationship, leave or leave for now.


For more information and support and to find out how you can work with me for 1:1 and group coaching, check out the website or find me on Instagram.


New episodes weekly.

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If you'd like to implement what have been learning on the podcast Join the waitlist for the next Pathway to Wellness Coaching Program: Join the waitlist here

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Amanda Lockyer 人間関係 心理学 心理学・心の健康 社会科学 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • 99 - I Think I've Lost Myself In This. Who Am I Without Their Addiction?

    99 - I Think I've Lost Myself In This. Who Am I Without Their Addiction?
    2026/06/16

    Have you ever stopped and wondered who you would be if addiction wasn't part of your life anymore?


    Not because you don't love your person.


    But because addiction has taken up so much space in your life that you've lost touch with yourself.


    In this episode, we're talking about the quiet loss of identity that can happen when you've spent years focused on someone else's drinking, drug use, recovery, choices and wellbeing.


    We chat about...

    💛 Why addiction can slowly become part of your identity

    💛 Why peace can feel scarier than chaos

    💛 The labels many loved ones unknowingly carry

    💛 Grieving the version of yourself you feel you've lost

    💛 How to begin reconnecting with yourself again


    If you've ever thought:

    "I think I've lost myself in this."


    This episode is for you.


    👉 READY TO TALK IT THROUGH?


    If you're exhausted, overwhelmed, or wondering what comes next, you're welcome to book a private Friendly Chat with me.

    It's a safe, confidential space to talk through what's happening, what you're struggling with, and what support might help.


    book in a friendly chat to talk it through



    👉 Special Listener Series


    As Addiction Makes Three approaches 100 episodes, Amanda is inviting listeners to be part of a special series called "Out Loud"


    Visit www.addictionmakesthree.com/outloud


    Because sometimes the things we think we're carrying alone are the very things somebody else needs to hear.






    👉 Want more support and clarity?


    The waitlist for your support, Pathway to Wellness is open if you’d like to find out more about Amanda’s small group coaching program designed to support partners and families impacted by addiction.


    Amanda has also opened some private “friendly chat” spaces to talk it through with you and support you to take your next smallest step.


    👉 Join the Waitlist for the Pathway to Wellness Program

    👉 book in a friendly chat to talk it through


    Private and confidential. No pressure. Just support.


    You were never supposed to carry this much for this long.

    And you deserve to live your life too.


    And when you are off the addiction roller coaster, and living your life, you're better for you, your family and your loved one and you can lead the way for change in your family.


    If you’re ready for support to create real change, you don’t have to do this on your own.


    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    29 分
  • 98 - Is This Just My Life Now? How Addiction Slowly Makes Your World Smaller

    98 - Is This Just My Life Now? How Addiction Slowly Makes Your World Smaller
    2026/06/11
    A client recently said to me, "I finally love my job... but I don't get joy anywhere."And I think that one sentence captures what so many people impacted by addiction experience. Because one of the sneakiest things about survival mode is that it doesn't always look like falling apart.Sometimes it looks like functioning.You still go to work.You still parent.You still pay the bills.You still show up.From the outside, it can look like you're coping.Maybe you've even been telling yourself you're coping.But somewhere along the way, life starts becoming something you get through rather than something you experience.You stop seeing friends as often.You stop doing things you enjoy.You stop making plans.You stop dreaming about what you want.And without even realising it, your world slowly becomes smaller.In this episode, we're talking about the hidden impact addiction can have on the people living alongside it.Not just the obvious challenges.But the way loving someone struggling with alcohol addiction can affect your joy, your identity, your relationships, and your experience of your own life.💛 Why survival mode can feel so normal you stop noticing it💛 The difference between coping and truly living💛 Why so many spouses and partners of people struggling with addiction feel disconnected from themselves💛 How addiction can slowly shrink your world without you realising💛 The question I believe every person living alongside addiction needs to ask themselvesBecause the goal isn't simply to cope.The goal is to live.And if you've been feeling exhausted, disconnected, emotionally flat, or like life has become something you're managing rather than enjoying, I hope this episode reminds you that you're not alone.And perhaps more importantly... that this doesn't have to be the rest of your life.🎧 Listen now and let me know what resonated most.👉👉 Special Listener SeriesAs Addiction Makes Three approaches 100 episodes, Amanda is inviting listeners to be part of a special series called "Out Loud"Share your voice and answer one of three questions:What do you wish more people knew about loving someone with addiction?When you look back, how has addiction changed you?What do you want more of in your life now?👉👉 Visit www.addictionmakesthree.com/outloudBecause sometimes the things we think we're carrying alone are the very things somebody else needs to hear.👉 Want more support and clarity?If you're thinking: "I know something needs to change, but I don't know where to start."Discovery to Recovery was created for exactly this moment.To help you move from confusion and survival mode to clarity, steadiness and relief.Because you don't need all the answers right now.You just need your next best step. Learn more about Discovery to Recovery here.💕The waitlist for your support, Pathway to Wellness is open if you’d like to find out more about Amanda’s small group coaching program designed to support partners and families impacted by addiction.Amanda has also opened some private “friendly chat” spaces to talk it through with you and support you to take your next smallest step.👉 Join the Waitlist for the Pathway to Wellness Program👉 book in a friendly chat to talk it throughPrivate and confidential. No pressure. Just support.You were never supposed to carry this much for this long.And you deserve to live your life too.And when you are off the addiction roller coaster, and living your life, you're better for you, your family and your loved one and you can lead the way for change in your family.If you’re ready for support to create real change, you don’t have to do this on your own.👉 Join the Waitlist for the Pathway to Wellness Program, or book in a friendly chat with me where we can talk it through and I can suggest the next best smallest step forwards for you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    23 分
  • 97 - I Don't Think I Get To Fall Apart

    97 - I Don't Think I Get To Fall Apart
    2026/06/09
    What happens when you've spent years being the strong one?The one who keeps going.The one who remembers everything.The one who holds the family together.The one who keeps functioning no matter what's happening around them.In this episode of Addiction Makes Three, Amanda explores the hidden exhaustion so many people impacted by addiction carry.The kind of exhaustion that doesn't come from a bad week.But from years of hypervigilance, over-functioning, emotional responsibility and survival mode.Because somewhere along the way, many people stop asking:"How am I?"And start asking:"What needs doing next?"If you've ever felt like you don't get to fall apart, this episode is for you.In this episode:Why being the strong one can become part of your identityThe hidden emotional cost of always holding everything togetherThe difference between wanting to leave your relationship and wanting to leave your responsibilitiesWhy so many people impacted by addiction feel exhausted, resentful and disconnectedThe question Amanda wishes more people would ask themselvesYour loved one's recovery matters.But so does yours.If you've been carrying more than anyone realises, perhaps even more than you realise yourself, maybe today's episode is your reminder that you don't have to keep doing it alone.👉👉 Special Listener SeriesAs Addiction Makes Three approaches 100 episodes, Amanda is inviting listeners to be part of a special series called "Out Loud"Share your voice and answer one of three questions:What do you wish more people knew about loving someone with addiction?When you look back, how has addiction changed you?What do you want more of in your life now?👉👉 Visit www.addictionmakesthree.com/outloudBecause sometimes the things we think we're carrying alone are the very things somebody else needs to hear.🎧 Listen now.Want more support and clarity?If you're thinking: "I know something needs to change, but I don't know where to start."Discovery to Recovery was created for exactly this moment.To help you move from confusion and survival mode to clarity, steadiness and relief.Because you don't need all the answers right now.You just need your next best step. Learn more about Discovery to Recovery here.💕The waitlist for your support, Pathway to Wellness is open if you’d like to find out more about Amanda’s small group coaching program designed to support partners and families impacted by addiction.Amanda has also opened some private “friendly chat” spaces to talk it through with you and support you to take your next smallest step.👉 Join the Waitlist for the Pathway to Wellness Program👉 book in a friendly chat to talk it throughPrivate and confidential. No pressure. Just support.You were never supposed to carry this much for this long.And you deserve to live your life too.And when you are off the addiction roller coaster, and living your life, you're better for you, your family and your loved one and you can lead the way for change in your family.If you’re ready for support to create real change, you don’t have to do this on your own.👉 Join the Waitlist for the Pathway to Wellness Program, or book in a friendly chat with me where we can talk it through and I can suggest the next best smallest step forwards for you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    19 分
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