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⚠️ Content warning: This episode contains discussion of domestic violence, murder-suicide, and violence against women. Please listen with care.

This week we are sitting down for one of the most important conversations we have had on this show. Because what is happening to women and specifically to Black women right now cannot be ignored, minimized, or talked around anymore.

We are not here to judge. We are here to talk about it honestly the red flags, the different faces of abuse, why abusers do not change and what it means to protect yourself and your children when a relationship becomes dangerous. We are also honoring the stories of women we have lost and asking the hard question: what would it have taken for someone to intervene sooner?

This conversation is for the woman in it. The woman who just got out. The mother trying to protect her children. And every woman who loves someone she is worried about.

⏱ TIMESTAMPS
00:00:04 Violence against women and children is at a crisis point right now
00:00:08 Why DV victims don't receive help until a line has already been crossed
00:00:15 Pay attention to the red flags & what to look for
00:00:23 Why women stay
00:00:28 Understanding the many different forms abuse takes
00:00:32 Abusers do not change
00:02:17 Murder-suicide — what it is and why it is an act of cowardice
00:03:53 The Essence article: violence against Black women has no justification
00:05:21 Men should walk away before it ever reaches this point
00:05:30 The Laci Peterson case and what it still teaches us today
00:05:42 Violence against women and children is not slowing down
00:07:00 DV victims are often not helped until it is already too late
00:07:46 The system's failure — why help doesn't come when it should
00:09:12 Recognizing red flags before it escalates
00:09:53 Mothers protecting their children from abusive fathers
00:10:32 Abuse in any form is never acceptable
00:12:05 Women stay because they don't believe they have a way out
00:13:53 We are living in a country that does not value women enough
00:16:53 Do not allow a man to come between you and your relationship with your child
00:18:18 The many faces of abuse — not all of it is physical
00:19:33 It is okay to keep your children away from dangerous situations
00:22:20 The Ashley Janea murder
00:25:35 You cannot force someone to leave a DV situation but you can stay close
00:26:42 The Dr. Cerina Fairfax murder-suicide honoring her story

🆘 IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW NEEDS HELP
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 — available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. You can also text START to 88788. You are not alone and there is a way out.

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