At 12 years old, Lawrence Harris was trying to survive childhood abuse, protect his siblings, navigate autism, and live with a nervous system that never felt safe.

By 15, he had another realization: what happened to him was not his fault, but he could not keep using his pain as an excuse to hurt the people who loved him.

In this episode of Raw Minds, Lawrence opens up about childhood abuse, autism, complex PTSD, hypervigilance, loneliness, low self-worth, therapy, accountability, forgiveness, relationships, codependency, and what it took to stop blaming his past and start changing his future.

Lawrence explains how trauma can rewire the way you see people, why abuse from a parent can destroy trust, what complex PTSD felt like in everyday life, and how cognitive behavioral therapy, journaling, exercise, hobbies, fishing, and self-awareness helped him learn how to feel safe again.

He also talks about becoming a content creator, author, speaker and coach for teens and young adults. At 18, he began publishing books, including Power to the People, and today he shares the lessons he learned through Lawrence C Empowers.

One of the strongest lessons in this conversation is simple: trauma may explain your behavior, but it does not give you permission to keep hurting people.

This is a conversation about breaking generational patterns, taking responsibility without blaming yourself for what happened, forgiving without forgetting, and becoming someone your younger self would be proud of.

LAWRENCE HARRIS

Website / Books / Coaching:

https://lawrencecharris.com

YouTube, TikTok & Instagram:

Lawrence C Empowers

Business / Speaking:

Lawrence@LawrenceCharris.com

CHAPTERS

00:00 Childhood Abuse, Autism & Survival

02:14 Welcome to Lawrence Harris

02:41 Where to Find Lawrence

04:33 Who Lawrence Was at 12

06:25 When a Parent Becomes the Source of Fear

08:20 What Survival Mode Looked Like

10:10 When He Realized It Was Abuse

13:18 The Turning Point

14:40 Taking Pain Out on People Who Loved Him

15:05 The Mirror Moment at 15

16:46 Trauma Explains It — It Doesn’t Excuse It

17:43 Men, Emotions & Generational Trauma

19:58 Changing the Ingredients Changes the Life

20:59 Be a Buffalo

21:39 Learning Gratitude for the Past

24:02 Finding the Lesson in Pain

24:36 What Complex PTSD Feels Like

26:32 Learning How to Feel Safe Again

28:14 Speaking to Youth About Mental Health

29:34 Vulnerability Without Trauma Dumping

30:12 From YouTube to Books and Coaching

31:54 Simple Tools That Actually Help

33:42 Why Coloring Helped Erick

33:56 Fishing, Presence & Mental Health

36:05 How Lawrence Started Coaching

38:26 Knowing When to Refer to a Professional

39:15 Predatory Coaching & Vulnerable People

43:06 What Lawrence Would Say to His Father

45:55 Forgiveness Without Forgetting

46:02 Understanding Why People Hurt People

49:00 Online Hate, Projection & Unresolved Pain

54:16 Who Lawrence Is When Nobody Is Watching

57:20 Love vs Codependency

59:19 Where to Find Lawrence

1:00:12 Final Message

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