Join Jaime and the Honorable Judge Brian Ratledge, a seasoned North Carolina District Court Judge overseeing trials and motions in domestic, criminal, civil, and domestic violence courts. As the lead domestic court judge for Wake County, N.C., Judge Ratledge shares how individuals can best prepare themselves when appearing in front of a judge for family law cases. From addressing common litigant mistakes to offering tips for alleviating anxiety before court appearances, Judge Ratledge sheds light on the reality of family court proceedings, courtroom etiquette, and factors that judges consider when determining outcomes in family court cases.

This information is specific to the law in North Carolina. If you have any questions before taking action, consult an attorney who is licensed in your state.

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Jaime's joined by life and relationship coach Laurie Gerber to explore the exciting, yet scary topic of dating post-divorce. From breaking free from past relationship patterns to rebuilding confidence and self-esteem, Laurie offers practical strategies to overcome common fears and challenges individuals face when re-entering the dating scene. Find out how to figure out whether you’re emotionally ready to date, effectively communicate past experiences and boundaries to new partners, and determine when it’s the right time to introduce a new dating partner to your child(ren).

Need help from Laurie? Contact her by visiting www.lauriegerber.com.

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Jaime is joined by Sarah Armstrong, VP of Global Marketing Operations at Google and author of "The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce." In this episode, Sarah shares her personal journey of navigating divorce while prioritizing her daughter's well-being and focusing on the mindset of divorce being a positive life change. From managing day-to-day logistics of co-parenting a child living under two households to pausing when emotions run high, she shares her strategies for minimizing disruptions to children's lives, living through the year of firsts, and building your support network. Tune in to learn how to approach the process with the goals of creating a supportive, stable environment for your children and being as happy, healthy, and positive on the other side of divorce.

Need help from Sarah? Check out her book here.

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In this episode, Jaime Davis and her colleague Melissa Essick delve into the intricacies of asset division during divorce proceedings, dispelling common misconceptions and offering expert guidance for navigating the process effectively. They discuss defining marital assets and debts, exploring crucial factors considered by the courts, and provide invaluable insights into what to anticipate during asset division. Gain a deeper understanding of asset valuation, including insights into passive growth, particularly relevant in today's volatile market conditions. Explore how separate estates and financial misconduct can influence distribution outcomes, covering scenarios involving inheritance, trusts, and marital waste. Tune in to equip yourself with the knowledge and insights necessary to safeguard your interests and achieve a fair resolution in your divorce.

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In this episode, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, known as The Divorce Doctor, shares her expertise on navigating divorce when substance abuse is a factor. Uncover the unique challenges and crucial insights when divorcing someone with substance use issues. Dr. Cohen combines clinical psychology knowledge with personal experience, offering a compelling guide for those facing a divorce involving a spouse struggling with addiction. Dr. Cohen shares stories from her own divorce, cognitive behavioral techniques that can help cope with the emotional toll of divorce, and navigating the complexities of co-parenting when substance abuse is a factor. If you're dealing with a challenging divorce or supporting someone through it, this episode provides practical advice and empowering perspectives.

If you or someone you know is struggling with similar issues, we encourage you to seek support from mental health professionals or relevant resources, such as Al-Anon.

Need help from Elizabeth? Contact her by visiting www.drelizabethcohen.com.

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In this episode, Jaime's talking with Kate Anthony, author of "The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage." Together, they explore the often terrifying topic of deciding whether to stay or go when facing challenges in a marriage. Kate, a certified high-conflict divorce coach with over 12 years of experience, sheds light on common dilemmas individuals face while making this life-altering decision.

Discover why women often agonize over this question and the importance of prioritizing personal happiness. Kate discusses what makes a healthy relationship and how deciding whether to divorce begins with self-work. Don't miss this episode that combines expert advice, personal experiences, and a roadmap for making one of life's most difficult decisions.

Need help from Kate? Contact her by visiting www.kateanthony.com.

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In this episode, Jamie's talking with Al Huntoon, an experienced social worker, former custody mediator, co-parenting coach and founder of Coparenting Connection. Discover the distinctive approach Al takes to foster harmonious co-parenting relationships, focusing on communication, conflict management, child-centered principles, and the importance of self-care. He empowers parents following separation and divorce with a skills-building approach to co-parenting with the child’s best interest at heart. Don't miss this engaging conversation that sheds light on common challenges of co-parenting and provides actionable tips for a more successful co-parenting journey.

Need help from Al? Contact him by visiting www.coparentingconnection.com.

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In this episode, join Jaime as she delves into the complexities of co-parenting with a narcissist with the renowned social psychologist, Dr. W. Keith Campbell. As a distinguished expert in personality and narcissism, Dr. Campbell provides valuable insights into navigating the challenges of co-parenting, whether dealing with narcissistic traits or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Together, they explore common behaviors of narcissistic individuals that impact co-parenting dynamics and discuss effective communication strategies for non-narcissistic parents. Dr. Campbell also shares crucial advice on establishing healthy boundaries, protecting parental rights, and ensuring the best interests of the children. If you're facing the emotional drain of co-parenting with a narcissist, this episode offers practical coping mechanisms to safeguard your well-being and mental health.

Need help from Keith? Contact him by visiting www.wkeithcampbell.com.

Learn more about his books here, including his latest book "The New Science of Narcissism."

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