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Scripture: Song of Solomon 8:4 - "Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires."

Summary: This Black History Month, we're celebrating Black love in all its forms - self-love, romantic love, sisterhood love. But not love as something that just happens to us. Love as something we choose, something we rise in, something that becomes a vehicle for our transformation.

Drawing from some of Toni Morrison’s powerful words in her novel, Jazz, I'm exploring what it means to approach love with agency and intentionality. Love as a classroom where we're constantly learning. Love as a mirror where we see ourselves in new lights. Love as a slow, long walk where giving and receiving happen at once.

I'm answering questions from a former student about what rising in love looks like in practice and how to maintain individuality while building relationship. And I'm naming the conditions that help us rise in love instead of falling into it: self-knowledge, readiness, reciprocity, and the wisdom to wait until love can be awakened at the right time.

Exercise: The Love Assessment - (1) Assess your readiness for love, (2) Evaluate your current relationships (are you rising or falling?), (3) Name your conditions - the non-negotiables that help you rise.

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Scripture: Matthew 26:39, 42: Jesus's prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane

Summary: What if prayer isn't just something we add to our personal development journey, but the foundation of it? In this episode, I'm exploring prayer as the primary site where we partner with God - the place where we self-empty only to become filled, where we take our questions and fears and find the courage to press forward toward our destiny.

Drawing from Susan L. Taylor's wisdom and fascinating research from Harvard Business Review, I'm sharing how prayer has led me through major vocational shifts - including the decision to restart this podcast and how I'm currently praying through building a bridge to my next chapter.

Jesus in Gethsemane gives us the model: honest, vulnerable prayer that brings our real desires to God while surrendering to divine wisdom. This isn't "name it and claim it" - this is the kind of prayer that transforms and opens us to supernatural power we can't access on our own.

Exercise: The Focused Prayer Journal - Choose one prayer request about your work, purpose, or destiny. For seven days, go deeper instead of wider, tracking daily revelations and watching how God progressively reveals clarity through focused, expectant prayer.

Useful Links:

All About Love by Susan L. Taylor

Harvard Business Review: “Entrepreneurs Feel Closer to God Than The Rest of Us Do.”

HBR Working Knowledge: “Reflection: The Pause That Brings Peace and Productivity"

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Scripture: Isaiah 40:31 - "But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles"

Summary: It's my birthday episode, and I'm celebrating with a bold declaration: Old is the goal! In a culture that worships youth and fears aging, I'm claiming the privilege of growing older with my whole chest. This episode is about what my 40th year taught me, what I'm praying for in my 41st, and why the ease we pray for is often found in our willingness to let life's changes actually change us.

I'm sharing the power of surrender - not giving up, but letting go of old standards of energy, tolerance, and productivity that belonged to previous versions of me. I'm talking about why my prayer for 41 is less about transformation and more about renewal - being revitalized in the woman I've become rather than becoming someone else entirely.

Plus, I'm answering a beautiful listener question about self-forgiveness that connects perfectly to everything I've been learning about surrender and grace.

Exercise: The Renewal Practice - (1) Name what you're ready to release (old standards, fixed stories, resistance to change), (2) Practice the gratitude shift (people who sustained you, moments that carried you, simple blessings), (3) Write your prayer for renewal.

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In this New Year episode, I'm sharing something I'm living in real time - a different way of approaching 2026. I'm off to a slow start this year, and I'm completely okay with it. Actually, I'm more than okay - I'm intentional about it. Going slow is allowing me to ground for the year in ways that rushing never could.

Drawing from Deborah's story in Judges 4, we return to one of my favorite examples of seasonal leadership. Deborah wasn't always on the battlefield - most of the time, she was under her palm tree. This was her primary posture of leadership, and it's exactly where we need to be in January.

This episode is an invitation to plan differently this year - planning backwards from your values and vision instead of forward from obligation and hustle. Instead of setting goals you'll abandon by February, I'm teaching you how to think in quarters, how to create rhythms that honor different seasons, and how to be strategic about the support you need before you start building.

I'm sharing three mindsets that are shaping how I'm approaching 2026, and a grounded planning practice to help you think and discern with intentionality and strategy.

Exercise: The Grounded Planning Practice - A five-step process to start 2026 from groundedness instead of franticness:

(1) Name your gains from 2024

(2) Clarify your 3-5 core values for this year

(3) Plan your Q1 vision (just January-March, not the whole year),

(4) Identify your support needs to make that vision sustainable,

(5) Create your winter ritual - one grounding practice you'll commit to this quarter.

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Scripture: Psalm 77:11-13

As we close out 2025 and prepare to step into 2026, this episode is about something essential: reflection, release, and learning to flow instead of force. This is my end-of-year offering - stories, wisdom, highlights, and what I'm choosing to let go.

Drawing from Psalm 77:11-13, where the psalmist reflects on God's deeds and wonders, we explore what it means to look back on our year with both honesty and grace. Because here's what I believe: the year wasn't just hardship and lessons. There was also joy! And I'm refusing to let the hard moments eclipse the beautiful ones.

I'm sharing three key lessons that shaped my 2025:

Flow, Not Force - When you've crossed over into trying to control the uncontrollable, you've moved from flowing in the will and power of God to forcing things in your own power. I'm talking about the exhaustion that comes from trying to make things happen instead of partnering with what God is already doing on your behalf.

Align Your Efforts - Don't exert effort in one area of your life only to negate it with decisions you're making in other areas. This lesson showed up for me in unexpected ways, and I'm sharing how misalignment was costing me peace and progress.

Love Your Body As It Is - Even as you work to transform it into the body you want to live in. This one is tender and necessary, especially for Black women who've been taught that our bodies are never quite right, just as they are.

But I'm not just talking about lessons - I'm also talking about moments of grace and goodness. A lot of my joy this year happened because others held doors open for me to be in new and exciting spaces. I call this practice "adorning my crown," or, recognizing that I didn't just survive 2025, I also thrived. There were moments of genuine delight, breakthrough, and blessing that deserve to be named and celebrated.

And finally, I'm naming what I'm releasing as I step into 2026.

This episode is an invitation for you to do the same sacred work of year-end reflection. To sit with your lessons even if it means revisiting hard stories. To adorn your crown by finding the joy even among the ashes. And to release what's not yours to carry into the new year so you can step into 2026 with more space, more love, and more flow.

Exercise: The Year-End Reflection Practice

1. Reflect on the lessons - What did 2025 teach you? Sit with the hard stories long enough to extract the wisdom.
2. Adorn your crown - Name the moments of joy. Where did you thrive? Who held doors open for you? What jewels belong in your crown?
3. Release what's not yours to carry - What are you choosing to let go? Name it specifically so you can step into 2026 lighter and freer.

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Scripture: Luke 1:46-55 (Mary's Magnificat)

Summary: Mary's song teaches us that joy isn't dependent on perfect circumstances. I share how to practice intentional delight during the holidays, moving you towards enjoying this season, instead of just surviving it.

Exercise: The Delight Practice - Create your delight list and schedule some sacred time to fulfill it.

Advent Devotional: A Journey With Mary

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Scripture: Habakkuk 2:2

Summary: God's instruction to write the vision reveals that sacred self-management requires clarity and structure. I share how writing vision during motherhood created my roadmap for returning to this new chapter in my ministry.

Exercise: The Vision-Writing Practice - Create your 90-day vision, make three promises, build structures, and find accountability.

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Scripture: Luke 8:47

Summary: The only way to begin writing a new chapter is to own the one you're in. In this episode, we explore the powerful moment in Luke 8:47 when a bleeding woman does something radical: she declares her story publicly, even though she could have slipped away quietly after being healed.

When we don't own our stories, we replay them endlessly, placing blame on ourselves and others for events that happened long ago. We can't make meaning of our stories as long as we continue to be oppressed by them. But when we claim authorship of our stories, we transform from victim to author.

I share my journey of recovering after two difficult vocational traumas - experiences that were somewhat public and that people suggested would make it hard for me to get another job. I talk about the constant remembering, the replaying of hard stories, and the moment I realized this wasn't pushing me forward. I had to own my story, so I could focus on what was in front of me, not what was behind me.

Drawing from Susan L. Taylor's wisdom that "our stories are our gifts to the world," we explore how owning your story is critical to accessing your personal power.

Exercise: The episode concludes with the Story Audit exercise - a powerful practice for writing one challenging experience from three perspectives (victim, survivor, and author) to help you move from being defined by what happened to you to being empowered by how you grew through it.

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