Line up every Spider-Man in the multiverse and the same thing is standing next to each one: somebody who died.
For this episode of 82 Toothpicks, the hosts watched Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse, and when the film reveals its infinite row of Spider-People with their losses beside them, Ethan says it out loud on mic: "Look! It's an estate planning movie."
The movie calls those deaths canon events, the thing that has to happen to make a Spider-Man. Take the mask off and it's the plainest question in estate planning: someone dies, and everybody left behind has to live inside what that death did to them.
The conversation covers who holds decision-making power when you can't hold it yourself, healthcare choices and the family member who ends up making them, fiduciary duty and what happens when someone steps into a role that was never theirs, and the parent-child relationships running underneath all of it. Miguel O'Hara took the place of another universe's Miguel and destroyed that world doing it. Three moments from the discussion show where estate planning enters the picture:
🕸️ Ethan points to the line of Spider-People, each one standing beside the person they lost. Amber names them: dead uncle, dead chief, dead friend.
🩺 Amber connects the film's parent-child tension to what the firm sees in its own office. Which kid do I take to the doctor? Which kid answers my health questions?
👮 The group tracks Gwen's father through the museum fight, watching him choose between the badge and being her dad, and the lying the two of them have been doing to each other.
Amber turns the whole episode into one question: when you die, do you change your loved one's life for the positive or the negative?
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