Ever feel like you're leading a team, running a household, or juggling it all and still putting everyone else’s needs ahead of your own?

In this powerful solo episode, Jenny Mitchell dives headfirst into the messy truth about people-pleasing and how it quietly chips away at your leadership potential. With a mix of personal stories, hard-won insights, and “big girl pants” moments, Jenny challenges us to stop managing everyone else’s emotions and start standing firm in our own decisions, even if it means someone might think a bad thought about us. Let them.

This episode is a must-listen for recovering (or reluctant) people-pleasers, especially women leaders who are ready to get clear, get intentional, and reclaim their voice. If you've been feeling disconnected from what you want, this episode might just be the sign you've been waiting for.

Key Takeaways:

1. People pleasing undermines leadership

2. Self-awareness is the first step to change

3. Resentment is a red flag

4. Effective leadership requires tough choices

5. Empowered leaders lead from intention

Chapters:

00:00 Understanding People Pleasing in Leadership

02:51 The Impact of People Pleasing on Leadership Effectiveness

06:12 Reactive vs. Creative Leadership Tendencies

09:05 Navigating Leadership Decisions and External Perceptions

11:56 Finding Clarity and Streamlining Leadership

14:42 Empowering Leadership Through Self-Awareness

If you loved this episode, you’ll also enjoy:

• Episode 6.5 - The ONE Thing All Leaders Must Do: https://chavender.com/underdog-leadership-podcast/the-one-thing-all-leaders-must-do/

• Episode 6.4 - Compassionate Accountability for Leaders (ft. Nate Regier): https://chavender.com/underdog-leadership-podcast/compassionate-accountability-for-leaders/

• Episode 4.1 - Giving Yourself Permission to Do The Big Thing: https://open.spotify.com/episode/715H358Nm9hgPnhgU5UqPO?si=MIvh8apBTeKLA1zPLeiaoA

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