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The scariest part of fitness is never the workout. It's the story in your head before you even start. In this episode, we unpack why fitness feels so intimidating for so many people and why it's one of the most powerful tools for mental health that exists. From Bianca's fitness journey that began in self-hatred, crash diets, and toxic yo-yo cycles before becoming one of the things she's most proud of, to Emilia learning to work with her body instead of against it, this conversation gets honest about the destructive narratives, taboo body relationships, and quiet fears that keep people from ever starting.

We also dig into a wake-up call moment at the gym that sparked a deeper conversation about what our bodies reveal about our minds, the vicious cycle of eroding self-trust through maladaptive coping, and why "scary" evolves at every stage of life, from entry-point fear to injury fear to losing muscle mass in your 50s and 60s. Whether your version of fitness is strength training, yoga, hiking, or silent disco, you hold the pen of what fitness means for you, and your mental health will thank you for writing that story.

Here's a related episode that builds on today's conversation:
#474 | Why Poor Decisions Get All the Hype - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/evolve-ventures/id1511831621?i=1000747149581

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Show notes:
(0:00) Intro
(2:28) How fitness brought Emilia and Bianca together
(4:07) Starting fitness from self-hatred, not self-love
(6:38) Your body is your most important asset
(8:12) Why our relationship with our bodies feels taboo
(10:11) A wake-up call at the gym
(13:01) Bree reflects on her incredible journey as a member of the Evolve Ventures team
(13:34) Breaking the vicious cycle of self-hatred and fitness
(15:49) Learning to work with your body, not against it
(17:46) Fitness touches every area of your life
(21:36) What "scary" looks like at every stage
(24:36) You hold the pen of your fitness story
(28:32) Outro

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