Do you ever make decisions because you think you should... not because you actually want to?

This episode is for you.

Today we're diving into heart decision-making (also called ego authority in Human Design), the style that's all about one question: Is my heart in this?

Not "Is this the smart choice?" Not "What will people think?" But... do I actually want this?

If you've ever:
• Said yes to something because it seemed responsible, not because you wanted it
• Felt guilty for wanting things for yourself
• Struggled to separate what you want from what you think you should want

This episode will help you understand how to tune into your heart's desires and make decisions that actually feel aligned.

Key Takeaways:

1. Heart authority operates on "hell yes or no": if your heart's in it, it's a yes

2. Watch for the word "should": it's a red flag that you're overriding what you want

3. Guilt often shows up: give yourself permission to put yourself first

4. Following your heart isn't selfish: it's aligned, and that benefits everyone

5. Tune into your body: where does a "yes" feel like? What about a "no"?


Resources and Next Steps:

Not sure what your decision-making style is? Get your free Human Design chart in 2 minutes. https://www.maryclavieres.com/getyourchart

Ready to stop second-guessing yourself?

Book a Decision Making Accelerator session and we'll dive into YOUR specific style, with practical next steps you can use immediately.
https://www.maryclavieres.com/decision-making-accelerator

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My book, Mind Body Connection Unlocked, takes you deeper into how alignment changes everything.
https://www.maryclavieres.com/book

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