What if dating could be enjoyable, and you could let go of the stress of performing, proving, and wanting to be chosen... especially when dating in midlife and wanting real love?

In this special episode, I'm joined by my partner, Marc Hopkins, for a real and honest conversation about how we actually found love — and what we did differently than in our past relationships.

We didn't fall in love by accident.
We didn't rush to define the relationship.
And we didn't try to be who we thought the other wanted us to be.

We slowed down, stayed curious, told the truth, and let ourselves be seen, even when it felt vulnerable.

In this episode, we talk about:

• The ways we were tempted to hide parts of ourselves to be more desirable
• Why avoiding "hard conversations" in the beginning sets relationships up to fail
• How we made our avoidant attachment patterns playful instead of pressure-filled
• What it looks like to date with curiosity instead of urgency
• The difference between reacting and responding, and how to bring this into early dating
• How honesty, even when uncomfortable, can create a foundation of safety and intimacy
• How to discover and build real love, not a fragile fantasy

This conversation is at the heart of my Honest Dating approach.

If you're tired of dating that feels exhausting, confusing, or performative, this episode will show you what else is possible.

If you want to more, join the waitlist for the Honest Dating Manual and events here:

https://shanajamescoaching.com/honest-dating-manual/

Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!

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