Why do so many relationships feel frustrating, confusing, or disappointing, even when there's real love?

What if the biggest source of conflict in your relationship isn't your partner, but your expectations of them?

In this episode, I talk with psychologist and author of Better Man: A Guide to Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex.

We explore how quickly we create stories about who our partner should be, and how those expectations erode connection, create resentment, and leave both people feeling like they're failing.

You'll hear why your partner may feel like an "alien" at times, and how differences in wiring, nervous systems, and past experiences shape the way we love, communicate, and respond in conflict.

This conversation also unpacks what actually creates win-wins in relationships, and why trying to "fix" your partner, or get them to change, often backfires.

• How expectations get out of alignment with reality (and what that costs your relationship)

• The hidden fear of "not being enough" that increases conflict

• Why your partner's strengths are often also their blind spots

• How to work with differences in personality, pace, and nervous systems

• What to do when your partner shuts down, pulls away, or seems unresponsive

• How to create connection without pressure, demands, or ultimatums

• Why people get defensive and how to stop unintentionally making things worse

• A more effective way to repair and create real understanding

If you've ever thought, "If they loved me, they would…" this episode will challenge that assumption in a way that opens the door to more connection, compassion, and possibility.

Find out how to have the best love and sex of your life!

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