Host: Yusuf

What happens when dating has no destination? Should you date multiple people until you're sure? How long should someone wait before asking for exclusivity? And is saying "I don't want a relationship right now" honest communication—or false hope? In this episode of the Relationship Status Podcast, Yusuf is joined by Angel and Shanell for one of the most honest conversations we've had about modern dating, relationships, communication, exclusivity, marriage, and emotional expectations. From hilarious "Either Or" questions to deep debates about boundaries, dating intentions, and whether feelings can truly be controlled, this episode challenges the way we think about finding love. Yusuf also shares his experience attending the 2026 Podcast Summit, including hearing Eric Thomas speak live and connecting with some of the biggest names in podcasting. He explains how the event reignited his passion to take the Relationship Status Podcast to the next level. In this episode, we discuss: Is it better to date one person seriously or date multiple people casually? Should you ever wait around for someone to choose you? How long should you date before becoming exclusive? Can you really keep emotions out of casual dating? Do boundaries make someone more attractive? Is "right now" giving someone hope—or wasting their time? Should divorced people take years before dating again? Are people looking for red flags instead of real connections? Can someone change their mind about marriage after meeting the right person? Why communication is the foundation of healthy relationships. This episode is packed with real opinions, funny moments, uncomfortable truths, and practical relationship advice for anyone navigating today's dating world. Join the conversation: Do you agree that saying "I don't want a relationship right now" gives people false hope? Or do you think it's honest communication? Drop your thoughts in the comments—we read them all. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to: Like this video Subscribe to the channel Turn on notifications Share this episode with someone who needs to hear this conversation Connect with Relationship Status Podcast Email: RELSTATpodcast@gmail.com Join our Patreon for exclusive content and the free Relationship Status Book Club: https://patreon.com/relationshipstatus Join the Relationship Status Podcast Advice Group on Facebook for relationship discussions, advice, and community. Featured Guests Angel Chanel (Nelly Pooh Speaks / Kimi Pot) Video Chapters 00:00 Welcome & Podcast Summit 2026 Experience 03:55 Introducing Today's Guests 05:18 Either Or: Dating vs. Vacations 08:18 Dating Around or Waiting? 15:30 Why Are You Dating? 20:20 Can You Control Your Feelings? 23:15 The Power of Boundaries in Dating 27:05 How Long Should You Wait Before Marriage? 30:25 Divorce, Healing & Dating Again 37:40 Are We Wasting Each Other's Time? 40:18 Settling vs. Being Chosen 42:01 Are Women Waiting to Be Chosen? 46:45 "I Don't Want a Relationship Right Now" 53:55 Final Thoughts & Closing

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• (00:00:00) - Relationship Stats
• (00:01:26) - The Podcast Summit: Experience The Summit
• (00:04:00) - Welcome Back Chanel and Angel
• (00:05:27) - Would You Rather Date One Man Seriously For 2 Years or Never Get
• (00:06:43) - Would You Rather Be the Only Woman He's Talking To Or Be
• (00:08:10) - Married Man: I'd Rather Have Someone Who Chooses Me
• (00:13:32) - Why Women Don't Ask Men To Commit To A Relationship
• (00:17:34) - "I don't want a relationship"
• (00:20:48) - I Never Wanted To Get Married
• (00:25:21) - Married 2 Months, 8 Weeks
• (00:29:28) - "If You Want to Be Single For the Rest of Your Life
• (00:30:25) - Married Woman on How Long Was She Married Before Getting Divor
• (00:35:57) - Dating Chanel
• (00:39:56) - Would You Rather Find Out Your Partner Settled or
• (00:42:02) - Are Women Waiting To Be Chosen?
• (00:45:09) - I Don't Want A Relationship Right Now
• (00:49:54) - "Your Words Matter" In Relationships
• (00:54:02) - Relationship Status: Chanel's People Can Find Me