What happens when life doesn’t just fall apart once, but twice?

In this episode of the Embodied Writing Warrior podcast, I’m joined by Sass Schaeffer, registered dietician, certified personal trainer, mindset coach, and host of Practice Your Positive Daily. Sass shares the story of being laid off and having her house flood in the same year, then experiencing both all over again less than a year later.

But instead of simply rebuilding the same life, Sass took the second collapse as an invitation to rebuild herself.

We talk about the difference between healing and true identity reconstruction, why so many high-performing women get stuck in survival mode, and how to begin creating a new version of yourself through nervous system regulation, self-trust, and bold embodied action.

This conversation is especially powerful for women in midlife, women navigating unexpected life changes, and anyone who feels like they’ve outgrown the old life but doesn’t quite know who they’re becoming yet.

Inside this episode, we explore:

Why rebuilding your life is different from rebuilding your identity

How survival mode blocks creativity, clarity, and future vision

Why self-trust begins with small decisions

The role of bold action in anchoring your next identity

Why the messy middle is where so many women quit

How action creates clarity, especially when you’ve been overthinking

The power of choosing a theme song to embody your next self

This episode is a beautiful reminder that when the old structure falls apart, you don’t have to rush to put the same pieces back in the same places. You get to ask who you’re becoming now.

Links Mentioned:

• Connect With Sass on Instagram
• Sass's Website
• Get Your Free Gift: Know Your Hungers Assessment