Caring for both aging parents and growing children can feel like being stuck in a sandwich — squeezed from both sides. In this episode of The Savvy Patient, cohosts Dr. Gillian Goddard and Erin Stein discuss the reality of navigating midlife while stuck in the “sandwich” phase—simultaneously caring for aging parents and raising growing children or adolescents. We explore how this dual responsibility creates intense pressure from both sides, disproportionately placing an invisible load of caregiving, stress, and labor on women. The conversation dives into the emotional and physical toll of this phase, offering validation along with practical strategies to manage responsibilities, alleviate stress, and navigate the emotional strain.

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Gillian mentions the podcast This is So Awkward with Dr. Cara Natterson and Vanessa Kroll Bennet, https://lessawkward.com/podcast-this-is-so-awkward-2/

We take a moment to remind you that while this is a medical discussion, it is not providing a diagnosis or treatment or any medical advice. The only way to get a diagnosis, treatment or medical advice for your particular condition is through a discussion with your doctor.

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This episode was produced and edited by Erin Stein. Music: “All We Live For (instrumental)” by Wolfclub licensed through Audiio.com. Intro and outro edited, and video created, by Ian Mayer. The Savvy Patient logo by Amanda Spielman.