Ever felt like you didn’t set out to lead, but leadership found you anyway? In this episode, I sit down with Starlene Aydlett, whose journey from first-generation college graduate with a criminal justice degree to school counselor, and eventually to unexpected school leader, offers a powerful look at how growth often emerges from the moments we least expect. Together, we unpack the surprises, struggles, and small victories that come with inheriting leadership, from navigating challenging transitions to finding confidence with the help of supportive mentors.

Starlene shares how her experiences in criminal justice and mental health counseling shaped her perspective, ultimately leading to a role where she discovered the importance of seeing and hearing others. We discuss the challenges of moving from colleague to authority, building trust and influence, and the lessons learned when you’re called to lead before you feel ready. You’ll hear about the courage it takes to step out of your comfort zone, why authenticity matters, and how the best leaders focus on giving people what they truly need to thrive.

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