You’ve probably found yourself reacting before you even realize what’s happening countless times. I certainly have. Those fast, heated moments, when your blood boils, your breath shortens, and everything speeds up, can feel impossible to stop. And before you know it, you’re in a reactive back-and-forth with your teen or young adult kid. But what if things could go differently?

In this episode, Seth and I talk about one of my favorite parenting tools of all time: learning how to pause before reacting to your teen. We explore what that pause actually looks like, why it’s so hard to find in the moment, and how creating just a few seconds of space can completely shift the dynamic between you and your child.

You’ll hear us unpack real-life examples, the physical signs that you’re getting pulled into a pattern, and the ways you can practice slowing things down, even when emotions run high.

In this episode on how to pause before reacting to your teen, we discuss:

• The physical and emotional cues that signal you’re getting reactive;
• How to recognize your triggers and slow the momentum;
• Simple tools to create a “pause” in the heat of the moment;
• What to say (and what not to say) when things get tense between you and your teen;
• How a famous Viktor Frankl quote guides my parenting every day, and could do the same for you;
• And more!

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