What if two of America’s favorite pastimes are quietly sabotaging your marriage?

In this eye-opening episode, Susan Money and Evan Money reveal the surprising ways “counting other people’s money” and “masking anxiety and fear” can drain your joy, connection, and intimacy. With real-life stories, wisdom from Steph Curry, and practical steps inspired by faith and personal experience, they’ll help you shift out of the comparison trap, stop numbing out, and start creating daily habits for a marriage that moves from good to great—one intentional step at a time.

Ready to protect your relationship and inspire greatness? This episode will show you how to tune in, get focused, and craft lasting connection—starting today.

Timestamped Overview

00:00 Two American pastimes that hurt your marriage00:32 Welcome and guiding marriages from good to great01:07 Great marriages are built on habits02:16 Inspiration from Steph Curry and the “Holy Spirit download”04:08 Tuning in and listening to God05:46 American Pastime #1: Counting other people’s money07:35 How comparison drains your marriage09:05 Healthy comparisons and insights from Jordan Peterson10:48 The power of intentionality (Rolls Royce & Ritz Carlton examples)12:10 American Pastime #2: Masking fear/anxiety (binge behaviors)13:27 Personal story: Facing trauma and finding healing17:17 You have to choose into a great marriage18:18 Stop comparing, coping, and start crafting18:41 Get intentional—turn your radio on and tune in18:46 Make what you learned happen today19:06 Outro and calls to action