Have you ever wondered why guilt, blame, and self-doubt show up so quickly after loss?

Do you replay every decision, every moment, asking yourself what you could have done differently?

Are you longing to hear words that comfort rather than silence — words that make you feel seen instead of responsible?

In this tender conversation, we explore the heartbreaking moment every grieving parent remembers — hearing the words “there is no heartbeat.” I share my own memories of looking for hope in a room that suddenly felt emptied of it, and the truths I wish someone had placed gently into my hands in those first moments: You didn’t fail your baby. This wasn’t your fault. You are still a mother.

This episode untangles the painful “what if” thoughts that often take over after loss and the way silence from others can deepen shame. Together, we explore how compassion, validation, and tiny practices of truth-telling can soften the sharpest edges of grief. You’ll hear simple, nurturing ways to speak love over your own hurt — from morning reminders, to releasing guilt on paper, to writing permission slips that honor the pace of your healing.

If you’ve been carrying blame, silence, or questions you’ve never said aloud, this episode offers a soft place to land — and a reminder that your grief is worthy of gentleness.

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Disclaimer: This podcast is for supportive and educational purposes only. I am not a licensed therapist. If you are struggling with your mental well-being or need professional guidance, please reach out to a licensed mental health provider, grief counselor, or trusted medical professional.

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