033 The Cost of Always Being the Responsible One
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033 The Cost of Always Being the Responsible One
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Your mind never fully shuts off. Even when work slows, the pressure stays. This episode explains why that happens.
You’re the one who remembers everything. Deadlines. Follow-ups. What might go wrong if you don’t stay ahead of it.
That role did not come out of nowhere. It was shaped by training, expectations, and years of being rewarded for anticipating problems before anyone else noticed them.
Over time, that responsibility stops feeling like competence and starts feeling like pressure that never lets up.
In this episode, we talk about why so many women lawyers live in a constant state of urgency, even during quiet moments. Even on weekends. Even when nothing is actually wrong.
This isn’t about motivation.
It isn’t about discipline.
And it isn’t about learning how to manage your time better.
It’s about what happens when responsibility becomes automatic, when your mind keeps scanning for the next thing that needs handling, and when slowing down feels uncomfortable instead of relieving.
Inside the episode:
- why being reliable can turn into chronic internal pressure
- how mental load keeps your attention locked on future problems
- why rest often feels uneasy instead of restorative
- what over-functioning costs over time, mentally and emotionally
- how understanding the pattern changes your relationship to it
You do not need to stop caring.
You do not need to lower your standards.
You need language for what your system has been doing, and why it has felt so hard to step out of it.
This episode gives you that language.
Want more support?
Want support easing the constant pressure and learning how to step out of urgency without everything falling apart? You can book a 20-minute call at heathermillscoaching.com/call.
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Full Show Notes and Transcript:
033 The Cost of Always Being the Responsible One
https://www.heathermillscoaching.com/blog/033-mind-never-shuts-off-responsible-one-lawyers
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