In this message from our We Are The Church series, Richard Hylton explores what it means to be “devoted to one another in love” through Romans 12:9–13, and why genuine Christian community is central to the life of the church.

Drawing on stories from Scripture, including 1 Samuel 18–20, Ruth 1 and Matthew 9:1–8, this message paints a picture of biblical devotion marked by loyalty, sacrifice, encouragement and persistence. These relationships point us towards a church culture where people do not simply attend meetings together, but genuinely carry one another through both ordinary life and difficult seasons.

Richard reflects honestly on the challenges of community, especially within a growing church, acknowledging that many people carry painful experiences of relationships, church life or feeling unseen. Yet the invitation of Jesus remains the same: to love one another as He has loved us. Through John 13:34–35 and Mark 12:30–31, we are reminded that our love for one another is one of the clearest demonstrations of the gospel to the world around us.

The message also explores practical devotion, sharing with those in need, showing hospitality, pursuing relationship intentionally and learning to love others with God’s love rather than out of duty or obligation. Hospitality is presented not simply as entertaining friends, but as actively pursuing and welcoming outsiders, strangers and those who may otherwise feel alone.

Ultimately, this preach is a call for the church to become more than a calendar of meetings and programmes. It is an invitation to build a Christ-centred community where people are known, supported, challenged and loved, reflecting the devotion and sacrifice of Jesus Himself.