Ever caught yourself thinking, “Why should I be the one to fix this?” or “That sounds like a YOU problem”?

That flash of defensiveness might feel natural, but it could be blocking a chance to grow, connect, and lead more effectively.

In this episode of Beyond the Class, Katie Trotter, Chief Program Officer at the Chapman Foundation for Caring Communities, explores the ownership mindset. This approach invites leaders to ask, “What part can I own?” even when the situation feels mostly out of their control.

Katie introduces the idea of “the gap." The space between what happens and how we choose to respond. It’s in this space that leaders can shift from blame to responsibility, from frustration to curiosity, and from reaction to reflection.

Through real-life stories and practical tools, Katie unpacks how small shifts in ownership can build trust, strengthen teams, and create psychological safety. You’ll learn how to:

• Recognize the difference between blame and responsibility
• Use reflection to respond with intention
• Ask questions that move conversations forward
• Build trust through consistent, small acts of ownership
• Create space for growth even when things go wrong

If you're ready to shift from defensiveness to development in your leadership journey, this episode offers the practical guidance and actionable steps to get started today.

If you're interested in exploring these concepts further, check out Our Community Serves, a two-day class on mindsets that help shift from a me-centric to a we-centric culture at https://www.chapmancommunities.org/learn-to-connect/