In this episode I talk to my friend Nina of over 15 years about love.

True love that is.

How we have "wasted" years with the wrong people but also our learnings. How Nina married her now husband within a reasonable and respectful timeline.

How being a girlfriend/boyfriend after 30 is kind of embarrassing. becoming a husband/wife is an elevated title. A sign of respect and love.

How many women "babytrap" men and how many men just stay with the women who "woun´t go anywhere". The type of women that are "easy to control" but in reality are highly manipulative.

Also no risk, no reward. Nothing is certain in life. Your "safe" choice can end up costing you much more than the so called risky choice...

How sad it is to see people settle just to adhere some society/ family rules.

How when true love knocks on your door. YOU WILL KNOW IT INSTANTLY.

It does not take a man or a woman years and years to "KNOW IF YOU ARE THE ONE".

We think it´s rather embarrassing to allow yourself to never be truly adored by the love of your life.

Yes, the market is rough out there but it´s important to live with intention. To do the right thing no matter how lonely you feel.

It´s also very weird to bring children to this world where you are not sure if you are with the love of your life.

How is getting married more of a serious commitment than children? Children bind you for life.

Anyhow as Nina says: Don´ let your boyfriend/girlfriend stop you from finding your husband/wife.

And I, well I just hope that love finds me for once.

As someone who makes life happen a lot, this is where I draw my line. I don´t like forcing love.

I would like it to happen organically <3

Cheers to that manifestation babes!