"Great love isn't found. It's created by two imperfect people willing to do the work."

What if the relationship you're longing for isn't created by finding the perfect person, but by learning how to love imperfectly, consciously, and courageously?

Why do so many relationships begin with passion... only to end in distance, disappointment, or disconnection?

In this deeply eye-opening episode of Soul Talk, Kute Blackson sits down with renowned Buddhist psychologist, relationship expert, and author Dr. Cheryl Fraser to challenge some of the biggest myths we've been taught about love. From the illusion of soulmates to the belief that the right partner should make us happy, Cheryl reveals why these stories quietly sabotage even the strongest relationships.

Blending modern psychology with Buddhist wisdom, she shares a radically different approach to lasting love: One built on conscious communication, emotional intimacy, shared adventure, and intentional sensuality. Rather than searching for someone new when the excitement fades, Cheryl explains why the deepest relationships are created when two imperfect people choose to grow together, embrace discomfort, and make love itself a spiritual practice.

If you've ever questioned your relationship, wondered whether you've found "the one," or felt the spark slipping away, this conversation may completely change the way you love and the way you see your partner.

Key Timestamps

• (00:03:10) — Why we suffer when we expect our partner to make us happy
• (00:12:20) — The Passion Triangle: the three pillars of lasting love
• (00:29:50) — Why the soulmate myth quietly destroys relationships
• (00:38:40) — Should you stay or leave? Knowing when love is worth fighting for
• (00:49:40) — Why relationships are one of life's greatest spiritual practices
• (00:50:20) — The hidden truth about sexless relationships
• (00:56:30) — Why scheduling intimacy can actually deepen passion
• (00:01:07) — The one lesson every couple needs to hear about lasting love

Some Questions I ask

• What if your partner was never meant to make you happy?
• Have you mistaken chemistry for compatibility?
• Are you waiting for love to feel effortless instead of learning how to build it?
• Could the relationship you're ready to leave be the one that's asking you to grow?
• What if the problem isn't your partner, but the expectations you've placed on them?
• Are you searching for "the one"... or becoming the partner your relationship needs?

In This Episode You'll Learn

• Why finding "the one" isn't the secret to lasting love
• The hidden beliefs that slowly erode even great relationships
• How to rebuild intimacy when the spark begins to fade
• Why your relationship can only grow as much as you do
• The daily choices that create extraordinary love over time
• How to stop waiting for love to happen and start creating it

Get in Touch:

Dr. Cheryl Fraser

https://drcherylfraser.com

Create a life that is a masterpiece.
Join the transformational journey: www.boundlessblissbali.com

Email: kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com
Website: www.kuteblackson.com