LIL #007: Every Deal You See Has Already Been Rejected

The best private investments close before you ever hear about them. Here's why - and what to do about it.

Episode Summary

In this episode of The Lifestyle Investor Podcast, host Justin Donald breaks down why the best private deals never reach the open market - and what it really means when one does.

You'll learn why open-market deals are a warning sign, how advisors' hidden incentives shape the deals you see, and how to start building the kind of access that leads to truly invisible deal flow.

Question of the Day 🗣️

Where are you currently sourcing your investment opportunities - through an advisor, online platforms, a network, or somewhere else? Drop it in the comments. No wrong answers - just curious where everyone's starting from.

Key Take-aways

• The best private deals fill inside trusted networks before they're ever announced
• If a deal made it to the open market, ask why the insiders passed on it
• Your advisor's deal recommendations may be driven by commissions, not quality
• Access to deal flow is necessary but not sufficient - private doesn't mean good
• You make your money on the buy side by saying no to 90% of what you see

Timestamped Outline ⏱️

00:00 - Introduction and recap of the three shifts

00:35 - The best deals are invisible, and that's by design

01:20 - The uncomfortable truth about open market deals

01:49 - The hidden conflict in your advisor's deal flow

02:52 - What invisible deals actually are

03:27 - Mobile home parks and SFR before they were mainstream

04:02 - The real access problem: deals reserved for insiders

04:52 - Finding deals is about saying no to 90%

05:27 - Five bad deals pitched in one week

06:00 - Next week: the five filters for evaluating any deal

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