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How to Share Your Feelings Without Triggering Defensiveness

How to Share Your Feelings Without Triggering Defensiveness

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Have you ever tried to share something vulnerable with your partner… and somehow the conversation turned into an argument?Maybe you’ve said, “I didn’t tell you because I was afraid of your reaction.”It sounds honest. It sounds vulnerable. But is it?In this episode, Dr. Tracy and Greg break down one of the most common communication traps couples fall into: when vulnerability accidentally turns into blame.There’s a powerful difference between saying “I’m afraid you’ll reject me," and, “I’m afraid of your reaction.”One invites connection. The other often invites defensiveness.If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “That’s not what I meant,” this episode will help you understand:Why “I’m afraid of your reaction” can escalate conflictThe subtle difference between explaining and being defensiveHow negative cycles get triggered without you realizing itWhy intent and impact matter differently in communicationHow to slow down and identify the softer emotions underneath angerWhat to say instead if you want connection instead of escalationDr. Tracy and Greg also explore how we unintentionally displace our fears onto our partner, and how learning to name rejection, shame, loneliness, or not-enoughness changes everything.Because real vulnerability isn’t about pointing outward; it’s about going inward first.If you want to feel closer instead of stuck in the same argument, this conversation will give you the language to start. 📎 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Not sure where to start? Find your relationship's negative cycle — free quiz here. Understand what you need to repair in your relationship. 2 minutes. Your partner will know exactly what to say. Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Be Connected — 24/7 relationship support, including Dr. Tracy AI trained on Tracy's clinical work. Get real answers in the moment, even when your partner won't do the work with you. Read the book: ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Get exclusive 1:1 support with Dr. Tracy. Find out more here. Get your question answered here on the podcast. Submit them here. 🔗 WANT TO GO DEEPER? One spot left for a couples intensive with Dr. Tracy — a 2-day deep dive designed for couples who are stuck and not seeing results from weekly therapy. In-person or she travels to you. Read the book: ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Get exclusive 1:1 support with Dr. Tracy. Find out more here. Get your question answered here on the podcast. Submit them here. Is your partner defensive? Download my FREE scripts to respond to a defensive partner. Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Build better connection and feel close starting today. ⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📲 FOLLOW DR. TRACY Subscribe to You Tube Follow on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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