If you want to walk into a coffee shop, a bookstore, or a comic book store this summer and actually know how to say hi to someone you find cute, this episode gives you a step-by-step flirting framework you can use the next time you leave your house.

Flirting is a buildable skill — not a secret language, not a personality trait. Here is the exact process.

• Step one: how to open a conversation with a question or a complimentary comment, and the body language signals that tell you in the first 30 seconds whether to keep going or move on
• Step two: what co-creation looks like in a conversation, so you can tell if they are actually into you without overthinking every word
• Step three: the one low-stakes question that turns a fun conversation into a potential date ("random question, are you single?") and exactly how to respond to every answer you might get
• The difference between a co-created date plan and a "muscling" date where you do all the work — and why the muscling version is a signal, not a relationship
• The "winking run" — the practice one client used to build rejection resilience 10 seconds at a time

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