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Chronic depression can wreck relationships—friends, family, coworkers, and especially romantic partners. But I don’t believe it’s inevitable that you end up alone.In this video, I share the highest-conviction strategies I’ve learned (through a lot of trial and error) for building relationships that can survive depressive episodes—without turning your partner into your therapist or expecting people to read your mind.

You’ll learn:

• Why disclosure matters (and how it protects your relationships)
• What to say when you’re in an episode, not just “I have depression”
• How depression creates a filter that distorts how you interpret people
• Why relational anhedonia can make you feel detached from people you love
• How to avoid making relationship decisions from a depressive state
• Why appreciation of effort matters even when “nothing helps”
• How prompts, reminders, and structure can keep connection alive

If you’re in the middle of a rough season: you’re not broken, and you’re not unlovable. Your brain is doing what depressed brains do. The goal is to build relationships that don’t collapse every time the weather changes.

If my podcast has helped, my new book, The Light Between the Leaves, goes even deeper

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About me:

I know what it is to feel hopelessly stuck and worthless to the world in general. I also know what it is to live without those feelings. I’m both a Clinical Psychology specializing in treatment-resistant depression and anxiety, and a human who has spent more than a decade managing sever depression and anxiety.

• Mental Health Coaching with me
• Therapy with me (for people in Iowa)
• Find me on YouTube

Resources

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📖 My 1st book: For When Everything is Burning

Disclaimer: This content is not intended to be a replacement for receiving treatment. It is purely educational in nature. My relationship with you is that of presenter and audience, not therapist and client.

But I do care.