In this episode, host Lee-Anne Bloom, OTR/L, explores realistic, attainable self-care strategies for parents who are supporting sensitive or neurodivergent children. Instead of idealized or time-consuming routines, she shares simple, daily practices that nourish the body, mind, and emotions. Topics include physical regulation through small movement habits, supportive bedtime and meal routines, mental boundary-setting, emotional nourishment, and practical tools like habit stacking, visual cues, and setting reminders. The episode emphasizes that even five minutes of intentional self-care can help parents stay grounded, improve co-regulation with their children, and build resilience as a family.

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Timestamps:

00:00 – Welcome and Podcast Overview

00:27 – Mission: Helping Families Raise Resilient Children

00:50 – Invitation to Grow and Bloom Together

01:00 – Introducing Complaint O’Clock

01:19 – Emotional Intensity in Neurodivergent Kids

01:40 – Wanting Children to Feel Heard Without Overwhelm

02:03 – Discovering That the Whole Family Benefits

02:37 – What Complaint O’Clock Looks Like

03:03 – Ground rules

04:00 – The "triforce of communication" framework for responses

04:30 – Using the Triforce Framework at Home

04:54 – Creating a Focused, Distraction-Free Space

05:19 – Explaining the Triforce in Detail- communication Goals in Three Categories

06:08 – Listening, Empathy, and Problem-Solving Options

06:32 – Additional Ground Rules for Respectful Sharing

06:59 – Three-Minute Pause for Regulation

07:25 – Why Complaint O’Clock Works

07:44 – A Safe Container for Family Expression

08:39 – Teaching Emotional Regulation and Communication

09:01 – A Real-Life Example of Vulnerability and Repair

09:22 – Growth Through Reflecting and Owning Mistakes

09:45 – “Know Better, Do Better” Mindset

09:53 – How Complaint O’Clock Has Transformed the Family

10:13 – Reducing Complaints and Strengthening Skills

10:18 – Encouragement to Try It at Home

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Oak Bloom OT provides holistic occupational therapy for children in Oakland, California, helping them develop functional life skills through interest-led learning and strong family collaboration.

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In this episode of Growing Strong Roots, occupational therapist Lee-Anne Bloom explains how to understand and manage aggressive behavior in children through a regulation-focused lens. Instead of viewing aggression as defiance, she explores the sensory, emotional, and communication needs underneath the behavior and offers practical OT strategies for prevention, co-regulation, emotional awareness, and meaningful repair after conflict.

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Timestamps [00:00:00] Introduction to the podcast and mission [00:00:27] Raising sturdy children with science-based strategies [00:01:00] The goal: helping children self-regulate before they act aggressively [00:01:12] How OTs view aggression as a signal, not defiance [00:01:40] Looking beneath behavior to identify underlying causes [00:01:52] HALT framework: Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired [00:02:23] Why relationship and trust matter for co-regulation [00:02:43] Adults staying grounded and modeling calm [00:03:08] Using tone, body language, and breathing to co-regulate [00:03:36] Sensory diet activities for regulatory support [00:04:03] Creating a safe space for intense emotions and release [00:04:35] Deep pressure tools for calming the nervous system [00:05:10] Structure and predictability during transitions [00:05:38] Teaching emotional awareness and self-expression [00:06:30] Repair, reflect, and reset after aggressive moments [00:06:56] Practicing alternative responses and role play [00:07:18] Supporting meaningful apologies and understanding impact [00:07:41] Introducing consequences with clarity and consistency [00:08:39] Episode wrap-up and future topics

Oak Bloom OT provides holistic, child-led occupational therapy in Oakland, California, helping children develop functional life skills through meaningful activities and strong family collaboration.

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