When it comes to pleasure, most conversations fall into two categories: Sex gets worse after menopause Or Women in midlife are having the best sex of their lives.

But let’s be real, for a lot of us, orgasms do not come easily, especially through intercourse. Some of us weren’t taught how our bodies actually work. We learned to perform pleasure instead of feeling it. We faked it to fit in, to please, to protect and somewhere along the way, we stopped seeing our own sexual needs as sacred.

Then menopause shows up and everything we’ve quietly carried starts getting louder. The frustration. The pressure. The “I should be able to do this” stories.

Not because menopause took something...but because it finally asked us to pay attention.

This week inside the Menopause Love Lounge, we are having the conversation most women never get to have. We break down why orgasms shift in midlife, what is actually happening to your libido, and how pleasure can expand when you stop chasing a goal and start listening to your body. The ladies open up about desire changes, mental load, partner pressure, toys, lubrication, and the emotional layers that make climax feel complicated.

We talk about what is normal, what is solvable, and what is absolutely possible for women in their forties, fifties and beyond. You deserve pleasure that feels real, connected, honest and fully yours again.

Join us in the Lounge and be part of the conversation that every woman deserves but has never been invited to.

Welcome to the Menopause Love Lounge—where we get real, raw, and unapologetic about being a woman in midlife. We’re redefining intimacy, identity, and relationships—one juicy, unfiltered conversation at a time.

Share your experience in the comments. What has changed for you in midlife and what are you ready to reclaim?

Where to find the ladies...

Where to find the ladies...

IG/TT: @menopauselovelounge

Email: theladies@menopauselovelounge.com

Andrea Knoche

IG: @from.mrs.2.ms

Tiktok: @from.mrs.2.ms

Ozzie Osborne

IG: @IamOzzieOsborne

Karen Viesta

IG @wellegantwoman

Dawn Wiggins

IG: @DawnWiggins

Laurie Gerber

IG: @LaurieGerber_Coach

Junie Moon

IG: @midlifeloveoutloud

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