The man in the mirror, self-sabotage

Most of the pain that men are experiencing comes from self sabotaging and limiting beliefs. In this sense, we are our own worst enemy, and the real fight is getting ourselves to come into alignment with our higher nature.

Men can often think that their biggest challenges are outside them, but in reality the struggle is within. Once we begin to win the fight internally, it begins to manifest externality. We become what we believe ourselves to be. We can hardly ever rise above our own self-perceptions.

Signs of self-sabotage

● They have been dealing with the same problems repeatedly, year after year.

● Whenever they begin to rise in life, they quickly return to the state and condition they once were.

● They beat themselves up over past mistakes.

● They fail to encourage themselves to take the necessary actions for success. 

● They create an environment that sets them up for failure.

● Create too big of goals, and never focus on daily action steps.

● They have a shame-based identity that keeps them from raising. 

4. Morality, integrity, and honesty

These three things are the formation of our character. Men are facing an issue with alignment inside them. Alignment is when what we believe, say and do all line up.

As a Stoic life coach, we need to help them develop virtue, core values, and belief systems that will help them be successful inside of life. We will train you how to do that.

How character issues cause men to fail…

● Inside a marriage due to infidelity.

● Inside business due to shady practices.

● Not keeping your word with your children.

● Lust for more and are never satisfied

● Stepping on everyone to get to the top

● Trying to prove they are an Alpha male by being aggressive

● Being jealous and insecure about what others have

● Living in vanity and trying to get external validation to feel adequate 

● Using their anxiety and fear as an excuse for their reactions