“If you’ve quit more workouts than you’ve finished, this one’s for you.” Joel sits down with 10-time IRONMAN and father of four Chris Betcher to unpack mental toughness, chunking big goals into bite-size wins, and the “don’t miss twice” approach to discipline. They dig into simplifying men’s health, modeling habits for your kids, trading cheap dopamine for real fulfillment, guarding your family’s screen time, and even how endurance training deepened Chris’s faith. Practical, punchy, and built for busy dads—stick around to the end for where to follow Chris. Like, comment, and subscribe to help more men keep moving forward. 
Chapters
00:00 - Intro hook: why most guys quit
00:23 - Welcome to Raising Rebels
01:04 - What is an IRONMAN? Distances explained
01:47 - Why Chris chose IRONMAN (and did 10)
02:28 - First race success & Kona World Champs
03:04 - Competitive childhood & sports
03:57 - College track at Concordia
04:26 - Training schedule: 15–20 hrs/week
05:35 - Mental game: break it into chunks
06:16 - “Next meal” mindset (Hell Week analogy)
06:58 - In-race checklist: pace, fuel, hydration
08:12 - Who starts vs. who finishes: mindset
09:02 - Carrying resilience into fatherhood
12:31 - Intentional & consistent beats perfect
13:13 - Why men’s health declines in our 20s–30s
14:47 - Simplifying health for real life
15:59 - Teaching kids to do hard things
20:23 - Family garden: hands-on habits
20:51 - Cheap dopamine vs. real rewards
22:14 - Kids, phones, and safeguards
24:16 - Blue light vs. sunlight basics
26:03 - Discipline over motivation
27:02 - Non-negotiables: don’t miss twice
28:02 - Worst-case workout: minimum viable day
29:02 - Health first so Dad can lead
30:13 - Faith formed through endurance
31:35 - Where to find Chris
32:15 - Outro & call to action
Links
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