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What happens when a "Type A" social worker, who is used to connecting others to mental health resources, becomes the one fighting for her life and her sanity? In this episode, Chelsea connects with Kathryn, the advocate behind the highly popular Instagram account Beyond the Birth Trauma.

Kathryn’s story is a harrowing journey through a 48-hour induction that ended in a massive postpartum hemorrhage (PPH) and a terrifying diagnosis of DIC (Disseminated Intravascular Coagulation).

Kathryn opens up about the "matter" of blood loss, the surreal experience of the ICU, and the heartbreaking moment she had to say goodbye to her newborn son before being rushed back into surgery. We also dive deep into the "body was made for this" myth and how Kathryn used her professional background to navigate the dark waters of postpartum OCD and depression.

This is a raw, honest look at survival, the power of a mother’s presence, and finding your voice after the unthinkable.

Key Takeaways

• The "Body Knowledge" Myth: Questioning the harmful narrative that "our bodies were made for this," which often leaves traumatized mothers feeling broken.
• Massive PPH & DIC: A look at the medical reality of uterine atony and the Jada device—a relatively new tool that helped save Kathryn’s life.
• The Power of Advocacy: How Kathryn’s mother played a vital role in her stabilization and recovery by being present in the room.
• Naming the Struggle: The importance of clinical knowledge in identifying postpartum OCD and depression early to seek life-saving intervention.
• The "One and Done" Choice: Validating the decision to complete a family after trauma without guilt or shame.

This episode discusses topics that may be triggering for some individuals. Please check the show notes for more information and be mindful of your own mental health and comfort levels.

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